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AIBU to change the pick-up arrangements?

70 replies

DisneyPrince · 15/07/2016 18:35

My babydaddy keeps getting the baby in the papers, and also I think he's maybe gay! Am I being unreasonable to make him do pick ups in car parks just to be difficult?

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wildthingsinthenight · 15/07/2016 19:32

Who is Briana Jungwirth?
It sounds odd but I am giving you the benefit of the doubt op.
I wouldn't deliberately try to make things difficult unless the dad is going out of his way to upset you somehow .
Can you answer my question about the paper?

EttaJ · 15/07/2016 19:40

Common? From someone who uses the term babydaddy 😂

Goingtobeawesome · 15/07/2016 19:46

Pretending to be the mother of Louis one direction baby.

Boorrrriiing

ThatShipHasSailed · 15/07/2016 19:47

I wonder if he has a pretty new girlfriend you're a bit jealous of?

Maybe you could tweet them both in a passive aggressive manner, that might make you feel better

notasgreenasimcabbagelooking · 15/07/2016 19:50

Louis' 1D baby? Oops! I haven't quite lived up to my user name!

LABarrista · 15/07/2016 19:53

Would it be an idea to ask to do pickups and drop offs in Starbucks? Maybe the caffeine would smooth things over? Also has the babydaddy got enough support? Has he got a friend to help?

JudyCoolibar · 15/07/2016 19:56

It's one of those sad tinfoil hat types who fantasises about Louis whatsit being in a gay relationship, isn't it?

Furiosa · 15/07/2016 19:57

Try harder.

wildthingsinthenight · 15/07/2016 20:00

Louis from One Direction? So this isn't real?
Great. I was really trying to help too!

notasgreenasimcabbagelooking · 15/07/2016 20:02

Now I'm owning up to being every bit as green as I am cabbage looking ... I'm ignoring the "gay" thing!! I'm not THAT green! I know Louis has a baby. I know he's not with the mum. I've seen pics of him pushing a pram or with a car seat or something? But pick ups in a car park? Why?

MrsLouisTomlinson · 15/07/2016 20:03

Look love. Get over it. He's with me now. And definitely not gay 🙄

DisneyPrince · 15/07/2016 20:03

I have asked for my privacy to be respected, yes. He seems to think he can post any pictures he wants on social media of my baby and him and his new girlfriend. I feel entitled to posting on social media - it is my baby after all - but I don't like it when he does it.

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Furiosa · 15/07/2016 20:03

Unentertaining nonsense.

DisneyPrince · 15/07/2016 20:04

I don't fantasise about it. I just wonder. It is what it is.

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notasgreenasimcabbagelooking · 15/07/2016 20:05

You and me both wildthing! Although it makes me feel a bit better for being "less than polite" quite so soon!!

molyholy · 15/07/2016 20:06

Cringe.

wildthingsinthenight · 15/07/2016 20:08

Is Louis gay then?

EsmeraldaEllaBella · 15/07/2016 20:08

I think you should cancel the cheque

wildthingsinthenight · 15/07/2016 20:13

Oh hang on! Is this that Larry thing that was deleted? About Harry Styles? I read some of that. It was funny!

notasgreenasimcabbagelooking · 15/07/2016 20:18

The parody bit might not be for everyone but Louis from 1D collects his baby in a car park?? Who knew? When will! this be on Jeremy Kyle?! And is it for the DNA test or the lie detector? Or are we going straight to Judge Rinder to sort out custody arrangements?

LABarrista · 15/07/2016 20:40

I feel you OP, it is what it is, no fairytale here. Have you considered getting another house that you could use for drop offs? Also why do you suspect that your camp flamboyant babydaddy is gay?

DisneyPrince · 15/07/2016 20:41

I don't want to give too much away yet. As I said I would like my privacy to be respected. But he has a friend who follows him wherever he goes. Everywhere. Even when be goes on dates. I don't understand it.

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DisneyPrince · 15/07/2016 20:50

LA, I don't know if I could get him to pay for another house. He's so tightfisted and mean - I mean he pays for the house we're in currently, but he doesn't half make a song and dance about it.

If I'm honest, for a while now I have suspected he's in love with someone be used to work with. Sometimes I'll catch him looking at d photographs of work outings and he looks so sad

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ThatShipHasSailed · 15/07/2016 20:58

Really Disney, that's sad. Do you think there's something going on with the work colleague?

DisneyPrince · 15/07/2016 21:01

Well, they were always fooling around and looking at each other fondly and stroking each other when they thought no one could see them.

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