Seeing someone from dating app, he's self-confessedly v shy but nice IRL. When he first asked me out, it was in quite a roundabout way.
He said he was free until the 15th [random date] if I wanted to go for a drink (he was living in my area temporarily), left it to me to choose the time and place in a gentlemanly way. I thought that was fine as I knew the area better. He then asked me out again that same night for another time, but again I chose place and we mutually agreed time.
I then moved away. We messaged for a bit. He mentioned face-to-face at the time that he liked me a lot so i do think this is "his way"; he's not had a dp before but is young so not unusual I wouldn't think. My point is I don't think he's got shed loads of experience romantically with girls (no problem).
Anyway he has now appeared out the blue asking how I'm doing and seeing if I'm free (we are soon to be living fairly nearby). But has phrased it in his standard way i.e. to let him know when I'm free. But this is all in his area now. So he knows it well. I replied saying yes, I do want to meet but I refuse to do anything more!
Aibu to think if he wants to see me he can bloody well take me on a date, choose a place, a time and arrange it!!