Long story short, went on a couple of dates frw months ago. Liked the guy, he was shy but sweet, first date was better and less awkward more tipsy than the second. We semi stayed in touch but both v busy and living in different places so not really.
I was actually thinking of contacting him today randomly but decided against it as there wasn't a huge spark for me (although he was nice) and I just thought well, what's the point.
He very weirdly messaged today though, completely out the blue, asking how I was and how things had been.
Although I was intrigued at first, now I'm a bit more pragmatic and not sure what can really come of it. Why after all this time?? I'm also not sure if there's any chemistry. I do think he's nice though.