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Ahhhhh! Bloody cake sales!!!

122 replies

Fresta · 06/07/2016 18:16

AIBU to think these are such a stupid idea for raising money? DDs teacher is constantly requesting cakes to sell to raise money for X Y and Z and then they sell them for 20p each. I can't make them for 20p by the time I have trailed to the shops and bought the ingredients and then there's the time spent bloody making them! It would be so much easier and cost the same to just pay for whatever it is!

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Momamum · 08/07/2016 15:03

My niece's fund raising event is next week and she's asked me if I could bake something for her?
Nope! I don't do cakes, make or eat. BUT I said what if I put peaches/nectarines in cake cases, stick little flags on the top (toothpicks and flags with 'the healthy option' written on them) and she takes those in?

Good girl! She's up for it Grin

BoudiccaAD60 · 08/07/2016 17:31

I'm with you completely. And what's it saying to our youngsters about what to eat? Why not have a savoury sale? Plenty of scope for nice food there.

Worst thing I made once were Florentines. Time-consuming, pretty expensive ingredients and rather refined...l Did they sell? Nah! Parents prefer cornflake chocolate crunchie things or fairy cakes.

And I steered clear as much as possible of buying the wretched things. Kids who haven't washed their hands. Dirty kitchen? Filthy utensils??? You can keep 'em!

toria6118 · 08/07/2016 17:50

I think tbh i would be insulted if school sold my cupcakes for 50p! The effort i put into making them and ingredient cost means they should sell for 3 times that amount. But maybe thats just me...

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ladymariner · 08/07/2016 17:58

Don't get why anyone would want to spend hours baking and making fantastic sounding things just to sell at a school cake sale. Fair enough if it's at the fayre when the parents can buy but if it's just at a playtime and the kids are buying then don't bother....the tackiest and E-numberful the better as far as the kids are concerned!!
20p each at our school, the kids go mad for them and we raise a bucketload of cash. If people want to make delicious home-made cakes, then that's wonderful (-H's mum we're looking at you and your fabulous brownies which we fight over in the staff room ) but honestly, the kids don't care. Save your money and your stress levels, and send in a couple of packs of bought ones.

PeppaIsMyHero · 08/07/2016 18:20

I threw myself into making some cupcakes for the Halloween event at pre-school. First batch looked totally wrong, so did another, then realised half way through I didn't have enough eggs but carried on anyway, then threw some icing on them and some halloween decorations. Ran them up to the event only to stop in horror when I saw the works of art presented by other mothers. I quietly slipped the box onto the table and ran away before anyone could identify the maker. Came back during the event to see them (rightly!) half-hidden at the bottom of the pile and - at the end - gave away to the children who'd 'tried hardest'! It was only at this point that I noticed the 'severed finger' decorations could be taken as something a little more....well...adult. I haven't bothered since and just pay the money, feeling very glad there are people in this world who can fill this particular skill gap.

Scaredycat3000 · 08/07/2016 18:28

As I said tor they didn't even cover the basic cost for value butter, eggs, flour and sugar, 20p per cake. It was the xmas fete, last time I make an effort. Glad I kept it simple with cheap decorations. How much do your school sell your's for tor?

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suharding · 08/07/2016 19:20

Our school often runs cake sales as a competition, so you have to pay for the ingredients, pay an entry fee for the competition and then pay again buying the bloody cakes! No wonder I am skint Smile

Lozzamas · 08/07/2016 19:20

I never make, never buy. I happily send a fiver in instead- but I too am told its "the taking part" that matters not the profit - it's seen as a jolly social way of fund raising. I don't do social - I work full time and love sitting up till 2 or 3 in the morning pandering to school requirements for all the kids (I'm no domestic goddess and leave at 6 am to return at 7 pm) If it's not cakes, it's props for assembly's or costumes for dress up days, or plays... I'm often greeted dog tired by " Mum for tomorrow I just have to have xxxx" I've told them If I don't get a full 10 days notice of a requirement my kids do not participate any more. I'm sick to death of school requirements - my evenings are non existent and my weekends with he family precious... No time for school centric tasks and definitely fed up with schools who forget most Mums work once their children are a certain age.... Hence they can stuff their various events I'm not "school social"... Don't know or want to know about any of it.

tilder · 08/07/2016 21:58

I am quite shocked tbo how much people spend making cakes for a sale. I bake a lot and use cheap flour, butter and sugar from aldi. I worked out ingredients including icing for 12 fairy cakes is about £1.50. I don't use whole packets for 12 cakes. 20p a cake makes it affordable for most.

Am also curious how many people on this thread are involved with fund raising in a primary school. I realise the PTA is a controversial thing, but if you don't like how it's done quit bitching and get involved.

Would also love to hear the howls of protest when instead of a Christmas Fair, the school just asks all families to donate £10. My kids would be gutted. I bet hardly anyone would donate. Then complain at the lack of PTA funded activities.

PoohBearsHole · 08/07/2016 22:07

Yes I/sainsburys value range chocolate melted and mixed in with value range rice crispies/cornflakes exc labour total cost under £2 made our cake sale at least £10 for that item. Simple as with no real effort. Many of the true baking mums asked for the recipe, they all are them and the kids did too. It doesn't all have to be effort and can make good money!

MsAdorabelleDearheartVonLipwig · 08/07/2016 22:13

I made a load of cookies for our cake sale today. Four trays of about fifteen biscuits. Sixty biscuits sold at 30p each. Made £18. Didn't cost me anywhere near that in ingredients as I have a pantry full of flour and sugar and eggs and butter etc and I just used some up. Loads of profit for the school and an hours baking for me. Not difficult.

Treats · 08/07/2016 22:20

Timely thread - I just turned on Mumsnet for a quick break in an evening spent totting up the accounts for the PSA (I'm the Treasurer). Our cake sales have raised nearly £2,000 this year, which the school will be able to spend on IT equipment, books, or just to give the children a treat at Christmas.

We have one every Friday, each class takes it in turn. I usually bake something when it's our turn - mostly because I enjoy baking - but I've got the measure of these things now. I KNOW they're only going to charge 20p, so I adjust the amount of effort I make accordingly. Usually it's just a basic sponge, cut into small squares, covered with bought icing and whichever sprinkles take DD's fancy. Takes me no more than 10 minutes effort (plus extra for baking time). Most other people buy their cakes, and that's fine too.

It's a little Friday afternoon routine that the children enjoy. It won't do them any harm if it's part of a balanced diet. More than 20p and people wouldn't buy them. The simple things sell quickest. If it was a "savoury sale", we wouldn't sell anything at all!

toria - your cupcake is awesome, but it would be totally the wrong kind of thing for the kind of bake sale we have - not that it wouldn't be enormously appreciated. But if we priced it at what it was worth, it just wouldn't sell. Wrong audience.

I think it's a bit of a silly thing to get annoyed about tbh. If you don't want to do it, don't. If you've made the mistake of going to a lot of expense and effort and didn't think it was worth it, don't do it again. But don't expect the school/ PSA to change a successful fundraising strategy because you would rather do something different.

There ARE more adventurous/ imaginative ways of raising money, but they take time and effort to arrange. Cake sales are easy to arrange, simple for people to participate in and raise a lot of money. Nothing else hits the spot in quite the same way.

StarfishandToffee · 08/07/2016 23:14

At least you only have to produce cup cakes here...

At my DD's international school (based on the American curriculum) they had a 'cakewalk'. We were asked to produce cakes. You had to 'bet' on a number on a giant spinning wheel, and each go winner got to choose a cake.
Fun, but I hope it doesn't catch on over here as its a big ask to get enough cakes together and get them to the school intact.

marhav999 · 09/07/2016 02:06

Plain Gingerbread men (and women) My dc love helping to make them and they fly off the shelf as other children love eating them.

AcademicOwl · 09/07/2016 03:10

Oh the after school lolly thing. Nightmare. Full of sugar and colours. Great sugar spike for a completely knackered child just in time for the weekend. Hate it. :(

Snoglywogly · 09/07/2016 07:49

I thought the sugar rush thing had been disproven.

But you don't have to buy. Lots would probably.

JuicyJ · 09/07/2016 08:43

Sugar is the problem - yet we as a country as so into 'treat and reward' and cake sales are aplenty, we are teaching our kids bad eating habits, cake sales are a nightmare, yet no one seems that bothered to do anything about them. Sugar has been blamed for obesity, tooth decay, type 2 diabetes, cancer, inflammation, the list goes on and on, even fruit contains fructose and should be eaten in moderation. Go and have a look in your food cupboard ladies and see how many of those innocent products contain sugar - even the humble oxo cube, you will be gob smacked, this is how the food industry has developed, they only sell food if it tastes good, so in goes the sugar, fat is your friend, sugar is the enemy - please stop the cake sales and look after your kids health (rant over).

didireallysaythat · 09/07/2016 09:00

At a previous school, there was a cake raffle. Most families signed up for one week, and would bring in a homemade cake. At break time the kids were allowed to buy a raffle ticket for 25p and the winner got a cake for the weekend. It was a nice end of week surprise on a Friday evening. But it was a small school - can't see it working in a larger one....

simiisme · 09/07/2016 13:34

Teacher and a Mum.
When my two were at primary, I'd buy whatever cakes were on offer and send them in with a couple of packs. Would remind my two that I work very long hours, don't have time to bake (very occasionally do, weekends and holidays) and involve them in choosing cakes they thought would be popular.
My home-baked ones probably wouldn't taste as good and would definitely cost more.

blitheringbuzzards1234 · 09/07/2016 15:11

I love cakes and cake sales but letting them go for pennies is surely not cost effective for anyone? If they were £1 wouldn't they still sell? A nice way to raise funds if it's priced right.

lordsteatime · 13/07/2016 20:03

strictly, legally speaking school should conform to the new food allergy regulations with regard to 14 allergens.
The school needs to list the contents of the cakes.

scootinFun · 13/07/2016 21:02

Oh boy - it is hard isn't it. I mentally checked out after I made 12 individual trifles - sodding gorgeous, chocolate and almonds sprinkled on top - and they sold them at 20p each. 20p!! They were a decent one person dessert size too! Everyone who bought them raved about them and keep asking if I am making more.

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