I already know I'm being unreasonable but I'm grumpy after a bad day and long week at work!
DH had a day off sick today, although he was just feeling a bit under the weather and not really very ill. Whatever, not really any of my business. But he's done no housework whatsoever. Wet clothes still in the washing machine that I put on last night (I leave for work at 6am so never do housework before I leave in the morning - he starts much later than I do). Dishwasher full of dirty dishes, with DSS's bowl from breakfast sat in the sink (the taps been on too, so the bowl and tub in the sink are full of half milk and half water). He's been to the shops and bought some DIY bits, just left them in the kitchen with nothing put away.
I will say now that he will tidy everything up this evening without any real complaint (although I will feel guilty for not helping, even though I've worked a 50 hour week and feel sick as a dog), but only if I mention it. He's a bit of a slob. Not lazy but just doesn't have as high expectations of our home as I do.
I know I'm being unreasonable because he is lovely in so many ways and does a lot for me (I do lots for him too, including commuting back from London early one afternoon a week to do the school run for DSS because my job is more flexible than his). I do a lot more housework than he does but he pulls more than just his weight in other areas so it balances out. Today I am just in a grump at him having a day off sick just to have a lazy day (he was well enough to be playing football in the garden with DSS after school so he's really not too unwell). I don't get that option!
I also finished work late and text him to ask him to order a takeaway with my card details - and he got it wrong!! Him and DSS got exactly what they wanted but he 'misread' my order.
AIBU to rant on here instead of bringing it up to him because actually it's no big deal and I don't fancy an argument?
And would it also BU to ask him very nicely for a cup of tea and biscuits in bed to make up for getting my order wrong 😆