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To ne considering cancelling visitor due tomorrow?

37 replies

listsandbudgets · 28/06/2016 20:21

Close family member coming to stay pre arranged some time ago.

However I have just got home from hospital a week after being admitted through a and e with a bacterial infection.

I feel dreadful, can barely cope with kids and dp amd the house is a tip.

Now I've just looked at my diary and remembered she's coming to stay tomorrow. She is touring friends and relatives so has already left home with plans.

I want to see her but can't face visitors even close family
AIBU if I cancel at such short notice. She does know I've been in hospital bht she just texted me saying she will be here tomorrow morning

OP posts:
beeny · 29/06/2016 07:10

What a lovely friend.

coconutpie · 29/06/2016 07:12

What a fabulous, kind, considerate friend! Glad to hear it's worked out. Hope you feel better soon Flowers

SarahJane333 · 29/06/2016 07:14

Sounds like she'll be a perfect guest. Hope you're feeling better.

ExtraHotLatteToGo · 29/06/2016 07:20

She sounds like just what you need, let her look after you, don't try to help her help you.

I'm glad you're home 🍫💐

WobbleYourHead · 29/06/2016 07:28

She sounds like the perfect visitor! X

Hope you're fully recovered soon. X

londonrach · 29/06/2016 07:28

Wow, love your friend. The fact she texted that shows she knews you have to rest and is coming with one aim...to look after her. If shes as good as her text....flowers, box of chocs and a thank you card. Get well soon xxx 💐💐💐

londonrach · 29/06/2016 07:29

Look after you or her!!!

GinIsIn · 29/06/2016 07:43

Can I be her friend?! Hope you feel better soon!

DoNotBlameMeIVotedRemain · 29/06/2016 08:15

Flowers for you. Your relative is a Star

StepAwayFromTheEcclesCakes · 29/06/2016 09:28

cancel her at once and send her to mine instead Grin

HermioneJeanGranger · 29/06/2016 09:40

She sounds awful, I'll take her off your hands Grin

Willow2016 · 29/06/2016 09:53

WOW can you send her around here first?
I am not ill but running around like headless chicken preping for hols and working with a million things to do by weekend. Smile Everything that can go wrong has this past 7 days!

Hope you are better very soon, enjoy being looked after. She sounds a fabulous friend, so glad that its going to be the opposite of what you expected.

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