Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Does nursing a baby have different meanings?

64 replies

Babysafari · 28/06/2016 15:00

Basically a family member was holding my baby and was on the phone. She told the person on the other end of the phone that she was just nursing the baby.

I thought it an odd thing to say as and looked a bit like this Hmm I understood it to mean breastfeeding, or possibly even comforting when upset.

Or does nursing also mean holding/cuddling a baby?

OP posts:
babyblabber · 28/06/2016 15:32

Surprised st all the comments re Ireland. I'm in Ireland and if someone said nursing I would think breastfeeding. Not that people use nursing g for breastfeeding, in my mind that's very American. But I've never heard anyone say nursing re just holding a baby.

jerrysbellyhangslikejelly · 28/06/2016 15:42

In Ireland it means cuddles and breastfeeding

spiderlight · 28/06/2016 15:42

To my parents, nursing means holding in arms/rocking. S. Wales.

mrsrhodgilbert · 28/06/2016 15:42

I'm from the north west. Nursing a baby would definitely mean giving it a cuddle, but I've only heard it used by my parents/ grandparents generation ie 70's up.

Notso · 28/06/2016 15:55

Nursing has always meant cradling or cuddling to me. Can be used for babies or pints as scribblegirl said Grin

sparechange · 28/06/2016 15:56

I've always known it to mean feeding/breastfeeding, and it is common to see signs for 'nursing mothers'

DH is from NI and it means 'cuddle'. People are regularly asked if they can give the baby a nurse, nurse the baby while I do something etc
I also found it a bit Confused

Kenworthington · 28/06/2016 15:57

My grandmother used to call holding and cuddling the baby 'nursing'

BalloonSlayer · 28/06/2016 15:59

I have a friend from New Zealand who would say if she wanted to hold a baby "can I have a nurse?"

steppemum · 28/06/2016 16:01

definitely means different things in different places.

US - nursing = breastfeeding only.

for me there are several other contexts:
nursing someone back to health
nursing along the car to get it home before it breaks down
nursing the abandoned kitten (cuddling)

so no, wouldn't sound strange to me at all.

steppemum · 28/06/2016 16:02

Oh yes - forgot nursing a pint!

sparechange · 28/06/2016 16:04

Balloon
They say the same in NI - "Can I have a quick nurse before I leave?" "Would you mind nursing the baby while I make a cup of tea" "I just popped by to have a little nurse of the baby" etc

shoofly · 28/06/2016 16:04

In NI here too, always meant cuddling/ holding to me too.

dotdotdotmustdash · 28/06/2016 16:08

dictionary definitions of 'nurse'

  1. give medical and other attention to (a sick person).
"he was gradually nursed back to health" synonyms: care for, take care of, look after, tend, attend to, minister to "they had nursed smallpox patients" 2. feed (a baby) at the breast. "nursing mothers" synonyms: breastfeed, suckle, wet-nurse, feed "Rosa was nursing a baby in her arms"
Birdsgottafly · 28/06/2016 16:08

Comforting a baby, used to be called Nursing. Nannys used to be Nursemaids, dropped later to Nurse.

The saying "Nursemaiding", or "Nursing", for babysitting was still around when I was a child (I'm 48, in Liverpool).

It was also used sarcastically when talking about keeping a watch on a teenager.

Hence, a Wet Nurse, going as far as to BF, but it needed the 'Wet' made clear.

Birdsgottafly · 28/06/2016 16:11

Just to add the saying "Nurse him/her back to health", it didn't mean in the medical sense of Nursing that we now know.

It meant to show kindness and care.

DavidPuddy · 28/06/2016 16:14

From the south coast and I would only use it in the context of feeding and have also only heard it used as such. Good to know it has another context elsewhere!

gonetoseeamanaboutadog · 28/06/2016 16:16

To my English mum it meant 'feed' To my Irish grandmother it meant 'hold'.

SeamstressfromTreacleMineRoad · 28/06/2016 16:33

Black Country here; to me it means rocking or cuddling a baby - although the American use is catching on here too, so some people might call breastfeeding 'nursing' Smile

dotdotdotmustdash · 28/06/2016 16:38

*Just to add the saying "Nurse him/her back to health", it didn't mean in the medical sense of Nursing that we now know.

It meant to show kindness and care.*

That's still the definition of nurses working within medical settings.

Beeziekn33ze · 28/06/2016 16:39

Seamstress - yes, W Mids, nursing means cuddling a small baby.
'Nursing' crept over here as an American euphemism for brxxstfeeding!

kungfupannda · 28/06/2016 16:41

I'm northern and it has always meant 'cuddling' or 'attending to' until relatively recently when I started hearing it more for BFing.

ficbia · 28/06/2016 16:42

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

honeylulu · 28/06/2016 17:14

My mum says nursing a baby and means cuddling baby.
Nursing as breastfeeding is common in the US but less so here. It was probably common in olden days (see wet - nursing).
I heard a judge refer to "nursing mothers" in a court case (he changed the order of witnesses so the nursing mothers could give evidence first, presumably to be free to go off and feed their babies). Everyone knew what he meant though.

QueefRichards · 28/06/2016 17:19

To my parents, nursing means holding in arms/rocking. S. Wales

Mine too. I haven't lived in S Wales for many many years but relatives younger than me still use 'nursing' this way.

MistressMerryWeather · 28/06/2016 17:26

I'm from Belfast and it means have a cuddle/settle the baby.

"Awk give us a wee nurse" - "May I please hold the baby?"

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.