My DH and I went to the local with friends. I left at 9 to pick up DS from her school disco. DH stayed to have more time out. I was fine with it. As I left I told him to call me when he wanted to be picked up so I waited up until 2am. He finally fell through the front door at 4 am. He hadn't messaged me at all to say he wouldn't need a ride...which was still kind of ok except I had to work this morning and could have used some proper sleep. This morning I checked our bank account and he has spent all the money I was setting aside for our anniversary tomorrow. I was so upset I was in tears all the way to work. I really was hoping for a night together alone and without the children and now I'm just going to be cooking and cleaning again. I feel like he has been so selfish.