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To feel pissed off with my partner

35 replies

Vedgeoh · 14/06/2016 23:57

My partner answers his phone while we are having sex, I have always disliked it but the most recent time he did this has made me feel angry!
He answered his phone to his ex and proceeded to have a minor argument with her while grabbing at me and trying to continue to have sex with me at the same time, I was getting dressed ready to leave him to his ex and their ever so important conversation.
AIBU to expect his full attention during sex?
He knows I don't like it but I might let this last phone call ruin our relationship, I feel really unappreciated and angry and have not had any contact with him since. Angry

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IamtheDevilsAvocado · 15/06/2016 05:01

Wow! Just wow!

If my partner did this... I'd bite... Hard... And then consider LTB...

It is sooooo disrespectful!

Out2pasture · 15/06/2016 05:29

:) multitasking....I sometimes mentally sort laundry and visualize wallpaper, but I don't answer my cellie

laurenwiltxx · 15/06/2016 05:49

He is an absolute twat I cant believe what I'm reading my bf is in disbelief too. Leave his ass

Janecc · 15/06/2016 06:04

Sex should be about the two of you. It sounds as if it's all about him.

DameMargaretofChalfont · 15/06/2016 06:45

Next time he tries to instigate sex ensure you have a book handy - as things get going grab the book and start reading.

He may get the point!!!!

PS it doesn't need to be a book. If you're fairly flexible maybe start painting your nails or grab your phone to update your social media!!!

Skittlesss · 15/06/2016 06:52

Was he actually "in" or just foreplay? Either way it's not acceptable and it isn't nice for you. My ex did this to me - didn't even pull out to answer it. It was his mate asking if he wanted to go to the pub. So he got off and went out. He was abusive in other ways also and when I look back I think this was a red flag. X

TheNaze73 · 15/06/2016 07:42

That is just so wrong, on so many levels. Bin him off

Oysterbabe · 15/06/2016 07:47

I'm impressed he gets so many calls, my phone barely ever rings. Also that you're obviously at it during the day.

TheHobbitMum · 15/06/2016 07:51

Absolutely not normal and completely disrespectful! I'd of refused to have sex if my husband ever did that, I'm pretty shocked anyone would do this Shock

LaurieFairyCake · 15/06/2016 07:52

If you're doing anything while shagging someone's doing it wrong Grin

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