anyone else think that sometimes , just sometimes, their Dp is a DICK

[PeaceNotPieces]

Been together forever, v rarely do I criticise but this pm he is a DICK.

Do you ever think your long term partner / DH is a dick?

What really makes you pissed off with him/her?

Do long term partners /DH/Dw ever get really pissed off with each other? Is it normal?

[WindPowerRanger]

Thank you. Suits me:- totally awesome and farty.

[KaosReigns]

Daily, or multiple times a day. For instance I am 39+3 and he still can't remember to put his dirty clothes in the wash even though he knows I can't reach the floor. He will even joke daily "the floor is out of Kaos' jurisdiction" but still leaves crap there.

Not to mention when I told him my feet were swollen last night he didn't immediately offer a foot rub AND he is currently making me toast, but wandered off and it has popped and is cooling as I type. Such a dick.

[OptimisticSix]

Yes. He sulks. Why? He's an adult not a child, when he's cross, he should explain why and not sulk and expect me to mind read!?! What a dick...that said I'm kind of a dick at times too so we're alright :D

[KaosReigns]

I asked him, he claims he never thinks I'm a dick. But that I'm often a bitch, for example when I cackle like a banshee as the cat steals his seat as soon as he vacates it.

[CodyKing]

Picture the scene - the kids sat happy and quiet in front of Saturday night crap on TV - and laughing and enjoying the program

DH walks in almost shouting 'who's had my phone charger? Go and look for it"

Sigh - really truly is a dick

[FuckingFattyBitch]

Mines being a real dick.
He's currently in my bed while I'm sat on my sofa with the ten month old beating the shit out of me because he doesn't want to go back to sleep. I can't wake DP as he has to be up in 2 hours for work. Wouldn't be so bad but he's not even meant to fucking be here. He just couldn't be arsed going home. So because he's lazy I don't have my bed, am wrestling a baby (who would be asleep if I could have him in bed!) And I'm fucking knackered. He's a dick.

[Tartsamazeballs]

Nope, I've never thought my husband is a dick. He's kind, respectful and listens to my point of view.

We row but I've never thought he was a dick. He's just not lazy/thoughtless enough- it's always just a difference of opinion.

We'll see how that changes when we have kids though

[ppandj]

Argh! DP have just had a blazing row (in whispers so that we don't wake DS, whose sleep we were arguing about) and I have stormed downstairs. Glad I have found this thread!

[WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid]

I can't be around him when he's doing DIY. He's a finicky perfectionist who takes forever to do anything.

Thankfully being a perfectionist who takes his time means he's a very good shag.

[eightbluebirds]

oh yes. The ones you love can hurt you the most. I've thought OH is a dick a hundred times but he is my world. He loves me to bits. But he is a twat sometimes.

p.s i can be a bitch

[CookieDoughKid]

I refuse to work as DP would slack off and get himself fired as he's a dreamer and thinks it's OK to live on the breadline and not pay bills so he can work on his own business idea. If I went to work I would be left to carry home and work and look after the kids and pay for childcare . Whilst dp be in his office working on a shitty website on a shitty business that won't pay anything. He's done it before a few times. So he can be a right dick.

So I refuse to go to work. He's a good man. Just doesn't understand priorities until it's forced on him.

[monkeyfacegrace]

My DH is a complete fucknugget more often than not.

Some days I actually daydream about killing him. Then I realise that I'd miss annoying him.

We row via text message so the kids dont hear us

[JayDot500]

My DH is a self confessed dick to most people. He's not so bad at home but I shudder at the stories he comes home with. And he's so proud of his dickish behaviour I try to stick up for the people who crossed his path![ blush]

I'm sorry world.

[ShatnersBassoon]

He tried to justify having left the car window open overnight during a snow storm by saying he couldn't see the wing mirror to straighten up when he got home because it was snowing

This is one dickish occasion I was reminded of earlier today when a friend was trying to say her husband is a dick because he forgot to lock the car last night . She has no idea.

[JenniferYellowHat1980]

My DH is 100% not a dick but I frequently mutter under my breath that he is out of sheer frustration that life is such a constant chore. Says more about me and my shitty attitude unfortunately

[JenniferYellowHat1980]

CookieDoughKid, you don't trust your DH to work hard enough so you don't work at all? Did I read that right? My apologies for snarkiness if I misunderstood.

[TipBoov]

Oh yes quite often, but I'm sure I can be just as bad.

[CookieDoughKid]

jennifer a little difficult to explain. If I went to work dh would see it optional on his part so he would not have to work. But he would refuse to be a sahd. I would have to work, do all the domestics AND pay for childcare. Which I had done for several years in a row. Dh would see it as free licence to pursue his so called '' online businesses'' even if they make no money. As DH would not see any need to make money as a priority as I would be making the money. And he would refuse to be a saHD as in his mind he actually thinks he is working.

So I refuse to enable him and pander to his whims. As he did best part of 3 years on a business that never ever made any money and refused to see the light even when we had bailiffs at our door as we had so much trouble paying for living costs (when I paid best part of £1500+ a month for 2 babies to be in priveted nursery so I could work full time).

Now he is working he works very hard and i work hard as a sahm.

Just that I will never ever give him the option to not work unless he isn't physically able to.

[CookieDoughKid]

Dh actually said to me several times he doesn't believe paying mortgage is a priority because if all fails the state can bail us our. And he has slept before on park bench and he was fine. So why can't we and our 2 babies? Yes I know. Dickhead of the highest order.

[Euripidesralph]

My dh is so fucking slow physically. It takes him three times what it takes me to do anything at all

I swear he does it on purpose .....I ask him to get a bottle from the fridge and he will be gone for five minutes....whyyyy? It literally takes five minutes and you could walk round our house four times

Things is he's not even slacking ....he really does move that slowly....of course I doesn't help that I'm insanely impatient and do everything at breakneck speed so I suspect he thinks I'm a Dickleburgh as well

But really it can't take ten minutes to change a nappy because you're positioning the baby just right ... he has to be sending me nuts deliberately lol

[Numbkinnuts]

My DH is a specialist in his field unfortunately he thinks he's a specialist in mine too ! Really annoys me

[fireandicecubes]

Today & yesterday for some unknown reason - I am praying tomorrow will be different or I will not be responsible for my actions!! (Disclaimer - he is usually the best DH I could wish for but he seems to have been affected by 'football fever' & I am ready to commit murder!!!)

[QueenofLouisiana]

Yes! DS got home 90 mins late from his residential trip. I finished work, went to shops (to pick up his mother's present), came home, did dinner, washed stinky residential clothes, hung them up, sorted out DS bag for sporting event.....

He's sitting on the sofa "stressed" about his work jolly trip tomorrow. (10 days in a country we both want to visit). I'm stressed that this free trip has cost £700 so far.....

I'm looking forward to 10 days off and terrified he might miss the flight and come home!!

[MrsDoylesTeaParty]

I hardly ever think this as we are like best mates, but today he is a DICK! Just started on me while I was cooking tea Last week he told me to fuck off just because I told him to calm down when he got angry because toddler was climbing over him in bed... He says I should ignore him for the first 10 mins after he wakes as he's not himself. Bastard! Thankfully the euros are having no detrimental effect.