We live in a new build property, although we've been here a few years. The developer supplied shrubbery in the front garden, including a small hazel tree. It was a couple of foot tall when we moved in.
PILs are OBSESSED with it. They mention it every time they visit. They say it's too close to the house, will get too big, and are adamant that a squirrel must have planted it because no sane developer would have put it in six foot from the house.
It was definitely planted on purpose, for one thing it was put in as a two foot high plant (we went one week to visit and it was all mud, the next week they'd laid turd and planted shrubs) and it goes with the rest of the shrubbery.
PILs are keen gardeners and know a lot about plants. We know very little. I love the tree, it's about six foot high now, or it was until yesterday when MIL pruned it. They've elicited a promise from us that we'll remove it before it destroys the house. But I don't want to.
AIBU? Are they right and it will destroy our foundations with its roots?