My DH has so many qualities about him but his personal habits utterly disgust me. They include keeping dirty cups, plates and bowls upstairs in his study to the point where there are no more left to use, in the case the cups. I counted 9 cups last time which by then all needed to be bleached out, as do the other dishes generally. He also has a habit of scratching his feet, leaving a mass of foot peel on the brown leather sofa (he does it elsewhere also, including in our bed but the peel doesn't always show which is still unacceptable). I have tried everything to address it but he continues to do it. It's exasperating and is a deeply unattractive and I fucking hate it. I resent cleaning up after him but if I don't do it, it'll never be done. He always apologises afterwards, promises not to do it againpbut still continues to do it. AIBU to feel that I really can't take it any more? Or am I blowing this out of proportion?