Mil has just gleefully informed me that seeing 'me and dh have children and what it does' my bil has gone from wanting children to not wanting them. My bil has every right to have whatever conversation he wants with his mum but aibu to think it shouldn't be repeated back to me in front of my children and that it's clearly a hurtful thing to say? She's also taken a load of photos of my first thing this morning, before I've had a chance go get dressed or brushed teeth (I'm never normally included in photos) and just made a weird mimicking sound when I asked her not to and said it's too late I've already got four.