To think I might be gay, but not come out?

[tiffanypink]

A few years ago now I really fell for a woman. She was all I could think about. I thought it was a one off.

Now it's happened again with a different woman. (I am not planning on acting on these feelings, by the way.)

I don't know if I'm gay, or not.

I don't think it's really that unusual for women to feel like this and not know what it means, eg you might be bisexual, or gay, or whatever - I don't think you need to declare it unless you want to but I understand it helps to 'know' yourself. As for how to know, I am not so sure. I think some crushes can be chalked up to 'admiration' types of girl crush rather than actual 'feelings' but then again some cannot. Do you feel or have you also felt this way about men? Not that that is indicative either.