I've been away with work for last couple days, left early thursday long day travelling, got to hotel late in the eve. Went straight to bed didn't sleep, up very early in terms ok uk time, did big important conference all day in which I had to do an hour talk, then travelled 9 hours home (there was a time difference), getting stuck in traffic on drive finally getting in at midnight. Dh knows a) how anxious I get flying, travelling abroad on my own, not to mention doing a keynote speech. Our children are not great sleepers, esp youngest, dh got up with him once in night and I got up to settle dc1. 5.30am ds2 wakes up, dh kicks me (gently, nudge type) and says 'you've been off the last couple of days you get up with them', I say 'but I only got in at midnight and have been on go for two days', response was quite arsey of 'I was left with children, your turn to get up, I want to sleep, you've had two days off'. I did get up but feel a bit annoyed which isn't common for me. I'm exhausted have run onfull blown stress, anxiety and no sleep due to time differences, I hate flying, and feel a bit unloved. II'm also ridiculously tired and probably blowing this out of proportion in my head!