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Told to take off coat or get a detention

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beth111 · 26/05/2016 23:41

My teenage boys finally got the health message I have being trying to get through to them for years regarding wearing a coat on cold wet days. During lunch time and recess, in the play ground, they decided to wear their coats to keep warm and dry. However the assistant principal informed them that their coats were not apart of school uniform and if they wore them again they would get a detention. Angry and shocked I wrote the assistant principal a note requesting my children wear a coat for health reasons. With the note in his hand and before discussing with me the heath reasons I had, he told them to take off their coats and that I had no say in the uniform policy. I can't believe Victorian public schools, that offer no warm dry areas for the children to play, would deny children the basic human right to stay warm and dry by telling them to remove their coats. Coats have no 'social value' in schools, in fact my children run the risk at being bullied for wearing one. What makes me more angry is on school excursions children are often told to wear a school uniform and a coat is a mandatory excessary, And why? To ensure children stay dry and warm, so why not extend this basic human right to Victorian children who live in cold wet climates? Teachers wear nice thick warm coats so why are they telling the children not to? I think as parents we need to start standing up to some of the education departments out dated policies, that put our children at risk.

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GrinAndTonic · 29/05/2016 11:51

Ahh playground here in 'Stralya' is a child's play area with swings and other such equipment (well what's left after the elf and safety mob got rid of monkey bars etc). Most schools have ovals (large grassy areas where they play football etc), cement slabs under a large roof (the under cover area) and maybe an indoor gymnasium for basketball/netball etc.

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BeckyWithTheMediocreHair · 29/05/2016 12:41

Ah, lost in translation - yes, UK school playground = outdoor tarmaced space, not play equipment.

LunaLoveg00d · 29/05/2016 12:51

Better send social services round. My 13 year old has been going to school all winter in a "windbreaker" type jacket. Unlined. We are in Scotland where it gets properly cold, not Australia cold.

Should probably add that because I'm a sensible mum and not a drama llama that son wears a long sleeve shirt, long sleeve cotton v-neck jumper and a blazer under the thin, flimsy jacket. He hasn't died of hypothermia yet.

apricotdanish · 29/05/2016 13:04

I'm with you OP. It seems an unreasonable rule, for the sake of a rule. I would agree, a windcheater is not adequate protection against the coat and the fact that the school advise you provide the children with a warm coat for school trips, indicates they thinks so too.

beth111 · 29/05/2016 21:42

Can any of you come up with a good reason to justify children not being able to wear coats outside (besides it's a school rule). Please instead of having personal digs at me or my children provide me with your reasons why children should not wear their own coats at school (over their school uniform). Coats here, in Australia, are not worn to indicate social status. I posted on this site for some new ideas from different parents that may touch on something I hadn't thought of. I didn't post on here for sympathy or to be called a liar and have my children insulted. Any good reasons on why coats shouldn't be worn in the 'outside area' would be most welcome.

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LightDrizzle · 29/05/2016 21:48

poster Schwabischeweihnacht Your boarding school wasn't St. Hilda's was it?

BananaInPyjama · 30/05/2016 01:44

this is the Vic govt guidelines on uniform:

cjdamoo · 30/05/2016 02:52

There is no school coat at my kids school in NSW. They too get detention for wearing a coat on school premises. They are expected to make do with the school jumper. Its fucking nuts.

Op YANBU

LikeDylanInTheMovies · 30/05/2016 03:02

Playground here in a school means space to run around / hang about / play ball games

Does anyone actually refer to it as a playground past about 11 though. At highschool it was known as the schoolyard by staff and students alike.

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