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To worry what people think when they see a larger women running?

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Scicilly · 23/05/2016 20:10

I am a size 16 and been working hard at losing weight (20lbs down thus far!). I love running (well puffy jogging really) and am working up in distance, now 8k, 3 to 4 times per week. I have had real confidence issues recently and feeling quite conscious now I've extended the route that I run in some more populated areas and feel like people really stare at me. In reality I know most people probably really don't care but I remember a Katie Hopkins show (really not someone to listen too I know!!) in which she said she always thought what a state fat people were in when they run, and my sister who is a personal trainer says she always thinks fat people running looks a bit 'pathetic' - and yes she said this to my face when I told her I had taken up running! I've also had school kids laugh at me and a builder van pass and they shouted 'run fatty run' (though that was ages ago). What do you honestly think when you see larger people running? - I get I may not be the finest sight compared to some of the people who pass me but getting to me now. Dh thinks I'm being silly and as he points out I'm 20lbs on what I was when I started so I should be feeling more confident not less... but I still feel some people see me as something to laugh at... am I imagining things maybe?

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Tokenjester · 26/05/2016 07:08

Just remember (& this helped me enormously when I started running) - nobody knows how far you have run, you may have just done half a mile & be red faced but equally you may have just run 10!

Enjoy!!

frenchielala · 26/05/2016 07:44

I think 'good on you' to anyone who is out doing a run what ever shape or size. Good work - haters are aways going to hate, try not to let it get to you.

Have you seen the 'This girl can' campaign. I think it is fab - have a look if you can.

FruitOwl · 26/05/2016 07:45

What a lovely thread this is! As a largeish and wobbly runner I feel your pain OP. Sounds like you're doing great! Stick on some headphones and just enjoy it. I always like to run like Phoebe; it's definitely more fun!! Keep it up x

To worry what people think when they see a larger women running?
ALaughAMinute · 26/05/2016 07:49

I quite admire people who run and think I should probably be doing it too!

Feefeefs · 26/05/2016 07:52

I always think "go on!, good woman/man". Slim people running never look like they're trying as hard

Sassypants82 · 26/05/2016 07:57

Oh god, I always admire bigger runners immensely & then feel completely inadequate & think 'I really need to get back into running'. You're an athlete, that's exactly how you look! Good on you, keep it up!

TowerRose · 26/05/2016 09:25

I'd think you were awesome and then feel guilty that I'm far to lazy to get up and exercise!

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