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AIBU to expect bouncy dogs to be on a lead in a busy park

40 replies

Littleorangecat · 15/05/2016 21:39

Just that really. Been out over 2 weekends in local parks with my dd (6) who is recovering from an accident and is low in confidence physically due to the accident, and still has a stitched wound which she is very aware of and worried about knocking even though it's been a couple of weeks.
On both occasions dogs have been off the lead running towards us and jumping around us. Today a rotweiller wouldn't go back to its owner when called, and before this was being allowed to bound around a very packed area in the park. My dd was sat down on a bench with an ice cream, the owner couldn't get the dog back, when it was running around us my dd very scared just wanting it to go away. Last week we were in a grassed area, not a busy park this time a staffie type dog was off the lead running with a stick, not a problem until the owners started to talk to another dog walker the dogs kept snapping at each other, they didn't put their dog back on the lead and their own kids ran towards us (we were sat on the grass) with the dog and the stick shouting "wind him up" tormenting the dog with the stick.
My dd can't move very fast at the moment and we both felt very vulnerable with the dog running towards us at full pelt whilst being wound up. I shouted "keep your dog away from us" on this occasion. What should happen in these circumstances, are dogs allowed off leads (genuinely asking as I don't know)
AIBU to expect to not have to do this?

OP posts:
WaitrosePigeon · 16/05/2016 07:46

Not this bollocks again Hmm

TheNaze73 · 16/05/2016 07:54

YANBU. I totally agree with you

LyndaNotLinda · 16/05/2016 09:10

Rosebud - that's probably because it's only on MN that dogs assault random people regularly.

Dogs should not be on leads, they need to explore. But I would always offer to pay for any cleaning should my dog jump up at you 80smum. It wouldn't happen unless you called him over and encouraged him though. Or had your pockets stuffed with doggy treats

almostthirty · 16/05/2016 09:13

I have a very large bouncy lab who loved children. There is no way I would go anywhere near a park without him being on a very short lead. Children are too easy to knock over (even by just his tail) .

coco1810 · 16/05/2016 09:20

YANBU. I have a very big, very cuddly German Shepard puppy who is an absolute angel with children. However, I am fully aware that to other parents or people in general, she probably looks f**k off scary. She is allowed off the lead if there are no other dogs, people or kids around but she immediately goes on the lead around other people as she's still learning to interact with people and other dogs.

Rosebud05 · 16/05/2016 09:21

wait rose penguin, if you think this discussion is bollocks, maybe don't contribute to or hide the thread?

Lynda, I've never been jumped up at by a dog on MN. In the local park, streets when I was a child, homes of relatives and friends on the other hand... yes, many times unfortunately

ontheedgeofthemoon · 16/05/2016 09:26

Yanbu

Our whippet is going through a very naughty teen stage. She will run round people in circles barket or jump up.

Therefore she is on the lead.

WaitrosePigeon · 16/05/2016 11:11

Thanks for the offer Rosebud but I'm quite happy to read the read.

Rosebud05 · 16/05/2016 12:05

It would be nice if you didn't fill up the thread with pointless posts just because the thread isn't going your way though, waitrose.

Shutting down other posters' experiences and opinions just because they're different from yours isn't very conducive to open discussion.

It came across as a very childish foot stamping tantrum - "if you don't agree with me, I'm going to make sure that you can't post."

daftbesom · 16/05/2016 14:09

YANBU, OP.

I have had to fend off "bouncy" dogs a number of times from small children in different places, including them trying to grab children's arms - in their doggy mindset they are being friendly and playful, but to a child it just seems like they are trying to bite. The owners in these situations have been totally useless and unable to recall their dog - a responsible owner would not let it happen in the first place.

My DH 2 weeks ago was sitting with a friend on a bench in a green space (not a park, more like a public path) when a wet spaniel tried to climb on their laps and eat their ice-creams. The owner was angry that DH's friend shoved the dog away none too gently, and blamed them for sitting in an area where dogs were walked and there was water nearby. (Keeping his dog under control was apparently not an option.)

I like dogs. I really do. But some owners piss me off.

WaitrosePigeon · 16/05/2016 14:27

I really don't care how it comes across, I will continue to do as I please.

Rosebud05 · 16/05/2016 14:47

Anything other than engage with the absolute, unshakable, indisputable reasonableness of wanting dog owners to keep their dogs under control, eh, waitrose?

Rosebud05 · 16/05/2016 14:49

I agree daftsbesom. It amazes me how many dogs take absolutely no notice when they're called, yet their owners are still convinced that they're 'under control'.

WaitrosePigeon · 16/05/2016 15:13

Whatever you say Rosebud Grin

SirChenjin · 16/05/2016 19:50

Totally agree Rosebud - these dogs are just being friendly, remember?

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