It hasn't been a great day - taking up carpet in main bedroom, assembling new bed, heat etc. Plus DD has Sats tomorrow. Anyway DD keen to go shopping to nearby shops and spend pocket money. I say fine as long as she helps tidy up carpet remnants in front garden first. DD has MAJOR meltdown as she wants to shop first, tidy second. I stand firm and insist she tidies first and am being calm and in control overseeing her from the first floor bedroom. Front door closed to prevent kitten going into road. Anyway, a nicely spoken 30 something woman stops by our gate to enquire "can she help" but not in a helpful way, in a judgy way. I say, calmly thanks no, daughter having a moment we are fine. She doesn't budge, and says my daughter seems in distress and claims she has been crying for some time. I say thanks we are fine and continue to try and reason with daughter. This woman still doesn't leave and so I say still calmly a third time, really we are fine thanks. And she finally moved off. But now I am fuming. Unless she is supernanny how dare she butt in?!