To ask you to help me calm down and give me the courage to do this

[Rosenrot30]

We have just come across something really shocking and something that could potentially destroy the narcissistic abusive family we have gone no contact with. Never did we think things were this bad and now we have to take further action with the police because what we have found demands action, problem is we are bricking it because have no idea of the repercussion's of this, the family is full of full blown narcissists who will do anything to protect the family name but there is someone in danger and because of that we can not pretend like nothing has happened. I am so full of adrenaline at the thought of this getting out and it scaring the crap out of my dh too. I need to calm down but cant I am hyper with nervous energy

What would you do if you were in a situation where if you did nothing that would make you as bad or an enabler of the person in the wrong but to do the right thing would be to incur the wrath of a large crazy family?

I can understand his fear but he could escape and presumably this person cant, how would he feel knowing that and doing nothing?

I'd tell, because my conscience would be clear.

I'd probably move though and give none of them my address. Wrath can't follow you without a forwarding address.

Right OP you said the last time they got reported by someone else because you'd had an argument with someone from that family they presumed it was you,but now your NC with them,how long have you been NC with them.That may be enough for them to not point the finger in your family's dirrection.

I'd report them,you don't have to give your name or phone number and if you get any trouble of any kind make the Police aware straight away!Have you not been advised to get an injunction against them before being as they've obviously been so awful towards you and your family?

My DH is a Police Officer,if you receive any calls,texts,emails,letters anything aggressive from them report it immediately.

Thank you for being so brave and stopping the abuse from passing to the next generation.

Be brave, Rosenrot, you're doing the right thing. Good luck.