Basically we have these married friends (knew him first, he married her later), she is very very thin (size 00) and has unusual eating habits that lead us to think she has an eating disorder. For as long as we have known her, she has eaten basically one meal a day but anything she does eat she covers in salt and then she goes to bed really early before anyone else. She is a dietician as well so food and telling people what to eat is her job so it's all confusing. They are going through IVF presently. We went through it some time ago so she is asking me for advice. Most of it around whether I bloated during treatment or how much weight I gained during pregnancy. I answered her honestly about my own experience but then added something like "look I know you're concerned about how you will look but the most important thing is that you have enough calories a day to sustain yourself and the pregnancy, and that some people gain a lot and others don't gain much, but ultimately the most important thing is that the baby gets what it needs." She then completely lost it and told me that while she could tell I was trying to be helpful, she found my comments to be negative and judgy. Did I overstep??? Keep playing it out in my head. 
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