Hi,
I am very upset for my DS and not sure where i stand with this. So mum1 from school invited us for a weekend away at a theme park for her DS bday along with mum2 and her DD. I wound up arranging it and booking it for all of us. Mum1 tells me she and Mum2 will share a room, which is fine. Then they arrange a ride up together. Its a 2hr drive so i say ill see if my DH can come as im not great with long distance they say no, mums only. Fine.
1st day her DS winds up both the other kids, etc. and my DS winds up in a foul mood.Mum1 hires a double scooter (buggy sort of thing) she says they can all share but her kid won't. She tells me i should get my own scooter tomorrow, but she doesn't tell mum2.
2nd day i arrive at theme park before them and ring the mum to say we will go in ahead as it is heaving and book out a double scooter for the kids incase they run out by time they get in. So me and DS get one and wait by entrance for 40mins and theres no sign of them. So i try ringing, nothing. Then i see mum2 go into shop so rush over to see where everyone is she says mum1 is sorting out scooter hire. I turn around and mum1 has the 2kids tucked in a scooter. So i say ill go outside and wait. I ring DH as i dont want to tell them that im annoyed no one rang me when they got in and she ignored what i had said.
Mum1 proceeds to stomp past me with the scooter thing and disappear. So i tell mum2 im going to swop the double for a single and will catch up. I catch up with them 10 mins later at a ride to find they didnt even wait for us and are half way in the queue and my DS wants to go on so we have to wait by ourselves. Mum1 then proceeds to ignore us. Stands between my DS and the 2 kids. If my DS stands infront of scooter to talk to the other 2 then she nudges him out the way and stomps off.
In the end, i felt very unwelcome and told mum2 that we were going to seperate off and spend the day by ourselves as my son is upset that he can't speak to his friends and it is very awkward. Mum2 said she couldnt understand why mum1 was behaving this way but stayed with her.
AIBU to think my DS was excluded by an adult?
It's one thing if she was annoyed with me but i just cant fathom how an adult would take it out on a child. I never even got a chance to speak to mum1, so it cant be something i said.
Thanks