There's a mum in DS's class that hates me. About 3 years ago she accosted me at the local park after school shouting that my DS was bullying hers (this was whilst both our DS's were off playing together BTW). I asked what had been going on and she said DS had pushed her DS over at school. I apologised and explained that I wasn't aware that that had happened but I would speak to the school the next day. She carried on shouting that that wasn't good enough, she wanted him punished that day by me. By this point she was pretty much screaming and everybody was looking. I told her that I wasn't willing to carry on the conversation and we would sort it through the school. She took it upon herself to then go up to my DS and scream in his face that he was a nasty boy and to stay away from her DS. Anyway, long story short I told her to stay away from my child, left the park and spoke to class teacher the next day. They weren't aware of any issues, said the boys all played rough and spoke to the mum about the procedure for concerns with her DS.
To this day she still ignores me. Fine by me. However, here's my AIBU. DS had his birthday party today and she dropped her DS off, walked straight past me without so much as a "hello" and off she went. Then at the end of the party I went up to her and her DS, gave him his party bag and said hi to her. She completely blanked me! Got her DS's coat and off they went. AIBU to think that you bloody well thank the host of a party your child has just been to?! I really don't understand why she has such a big issue with me! I shouldn't let it bother me really but it has. After the way she spoke to me and my DS i should be the one ignoring her surely?