My STBXH and I are coming to the end of a bitter divorce. We have 2 DC who are 11 and 12. We share a house - which is a nightmare but, our house is on the market and we are looking to buy a house each once our house is sold. My STBXH has put an offer on a house that suits him and is near his favourite kebab house!! Our DC and I don't know where his house is. My DC and I are v close. I have involved them in the house search and they have come along on viewings. I have asked them their opinions on the houses that we have seen. My STBXH keeps saying that I should have kept the DC out of it. My DC say that they would have felt left out if they weren't involved and are enjoying househunting. They have also learnt a bit about the house buying process. AIBU to include them? It is going to be their home too.