Im not sure if iabu or not. But dd2 is in y2 and im the first to admit she is a down right lazy but very bright.
Due to her bad work ethic in class she was moved to a table of her own for a short time last year. I only found this out at parents eve in March this year! The teacher has never called me over to have a word about anything before this point. She was moved to a table with other children in december and has been there ever since. Although it has become apparent that this is the table where they have sat the children with behavioural problems. I wouldn't have a problem with this as this is what the teacher thought best at the time. But over the past month or so I have worked hard with her to improve her work ethic by doing work with her at home and getting her in the habit of working hard without the need of prompting her and her teacher is very happy with her and said there has been a massive improvment in class. Dd has been complaining the boys are distracting her constantly and doesn't, she said they are tickling her and burping in her face and doesnt want to sit with them. She has spoke to the teacher about this too.
I spoke with the teacher about this to be told that "she understands dd drew the short straw by sitting there" "we have recently moved the children around but dd's table has stayed the same" and "if I move her it means I will have to move another child to that table" followed by "I will move her but can't say when" aibu in thinking that these comments sound like they've just washed their hands of her and that the other children in the class are more important? I think they intend on keeping her there for the rest of the year or maybe move when the year is almost over and this will mean she has spent almost the whole year there? Does every other childs needs come before my dd's? What should I do?