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To not share my weight with my friend every week

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HanHanHanHan · 15/04/2016 08:31

My friend used to do WW with me and we talk about our gains and losses.

She has since left but phones every week after the WW meeting to find out how I have done.

She no longer shares her weight gains/losses with me so I feel resentful she is putting me in a position where I feel I have to share mine. She is longer part of my support network in my weight loss (even though she might feel as if she is) and I feel she is just being nosey.

AIBU to not tell her anymore and how do I do this without offending her?

OP posts:
MatildaTheCat · 18/04/2016 18:15

Sorry, just re read that she calls after the meetings so you could say you aren't weighing for the time being but keeping to the ww principles? Alternatively just make a joke that what goes at ww stays at ww.

specialsubject · 18/04/2016 18:37

dullsville Arizona - don't you have anything else to discuss?

weekly is far too often to discuss weight. Tell her that the next milestone is in six months.

myusernamewastaken · 18/04/2016 18:54

I'd just not answer the phone after the ww meeting and try to break the habit a bit.......

icy121 · 18/04/2016 19:07

I've had friends comparing calories before. Easiest thing is to just lie to competitive bitches.

This week: "Had a terrible week, gained 3lbs"
Next week: "managed to maintain!"
"Lost 1lb!"
"Gained 4 Sad"
"Lost 8lbs, I did a water fast"
"Boo gained 7.5, had 3 curries"

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