I feel like I have no idea, had friends over today for lunch and dp was making drinks, we were having a slightly irritable conversation in the kitchen (he'd had to run into work this morning and id been left to sort house / make lunch with two dc one of whom is 20mo and he returned in a bit of a fed up state at that same time as our guests). I was holding the ice cube tray under the sink and was about to turn the tap on and he pulled it out of my hands in a really irritable way and went to take over. A couple of months ago he pushed me (not very hard) from the sink when we were having an argument about washing up and I was in the middle of doing it. Something about this action just seemed really dismissive / rude to me and reminded me of precious incident, I know it sounds completely ridiculous but it's the being taken over when in the middle of doing something. I brought it up after our guests left, he denied it happened then said if it did happen it wasn't irritable and he took over to help me, it's this outright lying that makes me feel slightly insane. Although perhaps is a non issue in the first place? In the end we had an argument which resulted in him telling me to fuck off. Sometimes I just feel the more I do (have covered all the Childcare this Easter holiday (we both work) and he has been away with work so also holding forte on my own, goes unappreciated - it's almost as if the more I do the least appreciation he shows.