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To not be able to picture things in my head?

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FedoraTheExplora · 14/03/2016 17:32

I know I'm not BU, but shamelessly posting here for traffic as I've wondered all my life if there was anyone else like me out there!

So, I can't form images in my head. It's kind of hard to explain, but my memory and thoughts are entirely words - I can't picture anything, not even my daughters face Sad it doesn't cause me any problems really, but I have a horrible memory I.e. I don't know what colour car my dads been driving for 10 years, or what colour the walls are in my mums home, that I lived in for 10 years up until about a year ago. I've tried to google it, but I can't find anything, and I'm tempted to ask one of my psychology lecturers, but I'm a bit too shy and it's a bit too weird.

So MN, do any of you have this? Have you ever heard of it? Even a name for this condition (?) would be interesting to me..

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CornishDoll82 · 14/03/2016 21:17

I'm similar - struggle to picture things in my head and have a dreadful problem with recognising people's faces. I once didn't recognise someone I work with every day when it was out of context. I also have a very poor memory for events etc. Interestingly I have a very good medium memory for learning things which was useful for exams

NuggetofPurestGreen · 14/03/2016 21:17

I have an excellent memory for facts, and faces and names and am fine with directions and imagining maps etc. Also okay with remembering what people/places look like when I've seen them before.

However like Neil in the bookshop, I find it very difficult to convert text to images - so landscape description is lost on me. I never imagine what characters look like in books, or picture things described. My partner reckons that's why I love reading and find it so easy (compared to watching telly) because I don't need to convert it to images to understand or enjoy it.

I also recognise cars by their number plates, including my own

So definitely have some degree of this!

MadauntofA · 14/03/2016 21:18

I always assumed my brain hadn't quite developed this function, either because I was premature, or because I think I have a lot of autistic traits. My memory of my childhood is also very sketchy - I gave always been fascinated by my DH's memory of his, and little details like the top I wore on our 1st date. I had met him in a bar and arranged to meet him a few nights later but purposely turned up late so he could recognise me as I came in the bar and make it obvious - I could not remember what he looked like at all!

CornishDoll82 · 14/03/2016 21:18

I also do things like watch a film twice only a year apart and not realise...

NuggetofPurestGreen · 14/03/2016 21:19

"Also okay with remembering what people/places look like when I've seen them before. " I mean visualising them when they are not there. Am fine with recognition (better than most people I'd say).

NuggetofPurestGreen · 14/03/2016 21:21

Example: my friend once texted me and asked me where Warehouse (clothes shop) was in town she'd just moved to. I said 'there's one on X st, beside the Early Learning Centre.'

When she got there it was a Carphone Warehouse. I'd remembered the word 'Warehouse' was there but didn't remember what the shop looked like!

CornishDoll82 · 14/03/2016 21:21

williamherschel I don't think it affects imagination. I've always been very imaginative - it doesn't have to be visual

allegretto · 14/03/2016 21:22

I can't picture people either. Took me ages to recognise dh and when my kids were little I was worried I would take the wrong ones home from nursery as they all looked similar!

DiseasesOfTheSheep · 14/03/2016 21:30

Does this go with having no imagination

Nope. I'm very imaginative. I can produce compound images in my brain, which aren't visually clear, but are literally very clear (I can't "see" the compound image so much as I can describe it in detail enough to allow someone else to produce a physical image of it).

Wilding · 14/03/2016 21:37

Very interesting about the reading - another super-fast, early reader here and I never picture images in my head of what I'm reading either. I do enjoy descriptive passages if the writing is good but I just sort of let the words sink in and enjoy the atmosphere they evoke rather than actually creating a picture in my mind of what the scene actually looks like.

DiseasesOfTheSheep · 14/03/2016 21:40

This is really interesting. Possibly a daft question, but does this mean that you can't for example walk around a familiar room in the dark/blindfolded?

Not without risking significant personal injury!

I'm massively relieved other people have very sketchy memories of childhood. I remember odd "scenes" - being somewhere, rarely actually doing anything, just the act of being there. E.g. I remember my neighbour's fishpond when I was about 2. I know my father was with me and I can deduce we were looking at the fish. My parents don't recall this, but acknowledge it probably happened. All my childhood memories are like that - very sketchy, very vague, people utterly irrelevant, but location/context or what I said being super clear, whilst also utterly trivial. And huge, huge gaps between them. Friends tell me about events we went to or stuff that happened and I just draw a total blank.

SansaClegane · 14/03/2016 21:40

This is such an interesting thread!
I'm exactly the opposite in that I imagine everything as pictures in my mind - from abstract concepts such as time; to recently learnt facts (when I was at school sitting an exam, I'd recall the page with whatever I needed to remember on).

About books/tv - yes I imagine everything very vividly. I read the Harry Potter books before the films came out. One day, I was re-watching the first HP film on TV and complained to DH they'd obviously cut quite a few scenes; especially the one I remembered so well with the potions. Turns out that scene had never been filmed; I had just merged my pre-imagined scene with the film actors and thought I'd actually seen it Grin

HopeClearwater · 14/03/2016 21:48

This is terrifically interesting. Really great to read about pp who think and imagine in great strings of words. Hello my people Smile

BestZebbie · 14/03/2016 21:48

I'm not quite as extreme a case as you, OP, but I'm almost the opposite way around - I think in images and written words but have a terrible memory for sound. My hearing is fine but I usually can't 'hear' things in my mind - even songs that I am super familiar with once they start playing or the voices of people I know well etc (but I can dream people including their voice, unless in a dream my mind just sort of assumes they sound normal and glosses over that part - I don't know how that works!).
I blame this for being disproportionately terrible at the listening part of foreign languages - if the sounds don't turn into accurate 'subtitles' for me (albeit in another language) that I can read, I have no chance of translating them!

DiseasesOfTheSheep · 14/03/2016 21:52

Oh oh oh I can't do sounds either! I can get small portions of songs stuck in my head, but usually only one or two lines and no matter how well I know the song I can't get past them (currently Drinking in LA, because it was on absolute this morning). I can't recognise even very well known music unless it has lyrics I can work through - utterly abominable with classical music recognition too. As for voices... Nope, not in a million years. It takes up far, far too much space in my hard drive!

WonderingAspie · 14/03/2016 21:52

I'm the opposite. I can picture things very clearly. I just done that test and found I am hyperphantasia. I wouldn't be able to think in words at all.

blueemerald · 14/03/2016 22:07

Another one here! I've known since I was quite young; the thing that made my parents and I look it up was my utter perplexity at the idea of counting sheep to go to sleep. I just had no idea how to do it whatsoever. Also those memory tricks where you assign a character to each card in a deck (for example) and then run the story in your head to remember. Hopeless.

I also read early and read very quickly! I cannot give directions as I can't visualise the route.

voodoolooloo · 14/03/2016 22:22

It's so interesting to find I'm not a complete weirdo like I've always thought!
I have no problems with people or faces. In fact I'm really really good at knowing I 'know' someone from somewhere. I've done a test and come out as almost as 'super recogniser' which seems at odds with the other stuff?
So, people who 'see' pictures in their minds..it's like an actual picture? I find it really strange to imagine that. Surely it takes ages to read a book when you have to picture everything? I have another odd thing as well. If I'm signing a song in my head or out loud. As soon as I hear another song or someone humming something different I instantly forget what I've been singing and can't remember it when questioned. Again like my brain knows but doesn't process.
Love this thread!

voodoolooloo · 14/03/2016 22:25

Oh and one more different thing at odds with some others. I have a fantastic imagination. I just can't see what I'm thinking about its all words but I don't see the words.
In fact that makes no sense but I guess I know what I mean!

HopeClearwater · 14/03/2016 22:48

What about dreams for people who don't form mental images - what are they like?

voodoolooloo · 14/03/2016 22:51

I have vivid dreams. Maybe I'm just really strange.
I wonder though if I just have a rubbish memory and minds eye but I dream about people because I'm good at recognising people?
I wonder what other will say about dreams?

DustyMaiden · 14/03/2016 22:52

My DM is like that and no dreams that she remembers.

I always thought she was strange. When buying things for the home I will know exactly what I want and how it will look, she looks at me as if I have a super power.

JenEric · 14/03/2016 22:54

DH has it. He thought it was"normal" until he read the article.

SansaClegane · 14/03/2016 23:06

Another question for those with aphantasia (I just took the test linked below and turns out I've got hyperphantasia) - how do you daydream? If at all? As long as I can remember, I've always made up stories in my head; they're as clear as films to me - settings, actors, everything. I don't think I could even go to sleep without "watching one of my favourites" first...

MetalMidget · 14/03/2016 23:08

Wow, this thread is fascinating! I mentioned it to my husband and he was saying he's the same - he finds it hard to visualise things, is terrible with faces, doesn't get imagery from books, etc. I'm the complete opposite (the test had me as hyperphantasic).

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