Been with DP 18 years and getting married in 3 weeks, we have dd7 two oldest dc flown the nest, so it's just the three of us at home. My DP in 18 years has never once suggested that we do anything or go anywhere, everything we do is my idea, no meals out he'd rather have take out at home, weekends and days off, if I didn't make plans, would be spent in front of TV or on the computer, unless he's doing diy which I've decided needs doing or else we'd still be looking at the same 4 walls we had 18 years ago! He works with Computers, job not very stressful, in fact he's had the same job since leaving college as it's easy for him to not bother looking for anything else, luckily he's great at his job so has had good promotions in spite of his lack of ambition. Don't think I'm doing him down, because I do love him lots and he's a great guy, but if I didn't organise everything we'd do nothing at all.
Now DD is getting as bad as he is, she has discovered Minecraft and YouTube and that's all she thinks about, I take her swimming, skating, to the park, lots of things yet she can't seem to enjoy any of it, she's just thinking about screens all the time, of course DP thinks nothing of it as this is how he spent his childhood. When DD was smaller I used to take her for days out alone as I couldn't be bothered having to talk DP in coming with us, now she's gone over to the dark side too!
Should I just give up and let them get on with it, I'm starting to feel like I'm just dragging them in my wake, sulking and thinking they'd rather be home on the internet. It's no fun for anyone then!
Do I have the dullest family? Is everyone else enjoying their quality time together?