I'm a SAHM with 3 young dcs. My dh knew it was mother's day as he signed the card I had bought him for his mum and all the chat on the radio was about lovely mother's day sentiments. I know some people don't believe in set days to celebrate things (he is generally quite like this, saying he's not bothered about his own birthday) or people say it's just commercial hype etc. But I can't help but feel disappointed that there was no 'Happy mother's day' or 'you're a fab mum' kind of comment. Nothing. I would have been happy with a simple mention, let alone anything material. Am I being selfish?
I do also feel that it's important to teach the dcs it's important to show appreciation and seeing as I don't get showered with compliments through the year I feel it wouldn't hurt to make a bit of effort for one day. He works extremely hard to support our family so I hope I show appreciation of that, and I know I am very lucky to have what I have. I always make sure we make a card and cake or something for Father's day. Eldest dc made a present at playgroup but it was up to me to prompt him to give it to me. When it's so in your face everywhere and loads of people are posting pictures of their lovely/hilarious cards it feels a but sad.