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To think this is enough to call the police?

32 replies

haggislagis · 04/03/2016 10:43

Broke up with an ex a few minths ago. Was getting texts everyday and silent calls to my home and work too- at least one on each a day. Then came the suicide guilt trip when zi didnt reply.

I called the police, more out of concern than anything who gave him a verbal warning. This was 2 weeks ago. Not heard a peep since.

Woke up this morning from a text saying it was a friend of his thanking me for my concern.

Should i call the police?

New DP thinks im being ridiculous

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lorelei9 · 04/03/2016 18:12

I would leave it now in case he's seeking a response
I would tell the police if it happens again after this
Blocking the number or changing yours just increases the chances of him turning up on your doorstep.

NeedsAsockamnesty · 04/03/2016 18:26

If you do not tell them then they will not know about it.

If you do it can go along with any information and could be an additional thing to prompt them towards going to court.

If they go to court you can get a protection order issued by that court obtained with the help of the CPS all for free and without having to facilitate your own legal advice and any associated costs of that.

Redroses11 · 04/03/2016 18:28

I'd just ignore, unless you get silent ones to work.

whattodowiththepoo · 04/03/2016 18:33

Just ignore but make a note and keep the text.

amarmai · 04/03/2016 18:57

keep the police informed as you do not know how far a stalker will go.

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