In our house, like Xmas, we rotate Mother's Day days out- so one year I spend it with DD and DH just the 3 of us, another year we all do something with MIL and then another year we spend it with my mum. (FWIW I wouldn't have it this way if it was my choice but it's what we decided to best please my mum everyone).
This year is my mum's turn and I booked for us all to go for afternoon tea at a country house hotel.
Sadly, DHs nanna (MIL's mum) died on Saturday. She is of course devastated and taking it really hard. She is single and is feeling very alone so we have seen quite a bit of her since the weekend and I asked her to join us for afternoon tea. I couldn't bear the thought of her being alone on Mother's Day after losing her own mum (DH does have siblings but they're all useless and hadn't made plans with her for Mother's Day haven't even visited or called her since nannaILs death, just a text message from each of them )
MIL accepted and was really happy to join us, says she'll need a treat by then.
Told my mum, who is now in a sulk with me, as she thought it would just be me, her and DD (actually DH was coming all along!). I explained that MILS mum has died and she said that whilst it's very sad, she doesn't get many days just me and her, and MIL had her day last year.
AIBU or is she? I think she's being spectacularly fucking selfish!!
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PiperChapstick · 02/03/2016 14:00
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