Quick back story, my little girl is 4 today, she had her party and presents last week as that was the closest we could get near to her birthday, all day I've not had ONE phone call from any member of the family to wish her a happy birthday, bearing in mind it is quite a special one, I'm not asking lots but you think they would have remembered, she loves chatting on the phone too. At 6.30pm I get a call from MIL to wish her a happy birthday, she didn't ask to speak to her either, she actually told me she probably doesn't know it's her birthday, (she does know), 15 minutes later SIL calls to say she meant to call, but lost track of time, her and MIL had probably been on the phone to each other with MIL reminding SIL to phone me. I know they forgot and didn't mean to because of the party last week, but it annoys me that MIL is very good at remembering birthdays, she sends cards and makes phone calls to people she hasn't seen in years and years. I know I'm probably being silly and there's nothing anyone can say or do, but it helps to let it out! x