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Another Parking Thread..

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possum18 · 23/02/2016 19:27

8 months pregnant with twins and I'm huge, our drive way has 2 side by side spaces on a really steep slope and not a lot of width. Up until not I've had no problem getting in and out mine / dps cars but I've gained whale status this last week or so and started finding it a lot harder to get in and out of our cars on the drive as I can't open the doors very wide and the slope makes it a bit trickier . There's a space on the road in between mine and neighbours house, they have a large drive with 1 white van and 3 cars on. They often have visitors who use this space, no problem - until they blocked me in twice this weekend so I had to reverse up the slope onto my grass to get out.
I didn't say anything so not to be a naggy neighbour. Today I parked on the road space as I really didn't fancy the squeeze between mine and dps cars or trying to get out on the sloped drive.

I've just received a note through the door which reads in capitals


PLEASE CAN YOU PARK ON YOUR DRIVE, PARKING IS DIFFICULTY ENOUGH ON THE CUL-DE-SAC ALREADY!!!!!!

There's not a parking problem round here and plenty of road spaces around other people's houses.

Not sure if I'm being hormonal and unreasonable to park there (albeit once in the 6 months I've lived here), or if this is a bit rude of them?

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possum18 · 07/03/2016 18:57

That's not a bad idea about parking in the middle of our drive and dp parking on the road blocking me in actually!

Sadly our houses are detached, but when the nice warmer weather and the twins are here I'll make sure I take them into the garden for a good cry in the middle of the night Wink

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AKissACuddleAndACheekyFinger · 07/03/2016 19:34

Stick a note through the door written in capital letters....

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Expatmomma · 07/03/2016 20:06

Well on a hot summers' night nothing better then opening the windows for a light breeze when you are up at 2.00 am. Can't let the hot crying twins overheat!

Oh years of fun await you.

We lived next door to boy twins. They were up and out with their foot ball and loud voices EVERY Sunday morning at 6.30am for years.

Fresh air and exercise and all that.

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leelu66 · 07/03/2016 20:11

Ugh. WHY DOES HE THINK HE HAS THE RIGHT TO PARK THERE BUT YOU DON'T?!!!

Sorry, I have no patience with fuckwits today :(

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Pipbin · 07/03/2016 20:12

parking in the middle of our drive and dp parking on the road blocking me in actually!

I sometimes have them you know!
In an emergency then DH's car can be used, otherwise yours is easily available.

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Blu · 07/03/2016 20:23

If he is parked in the space, send his original note back to him, with your signature added at the bottom!

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QuestionableMouse · 07/03/2016 23:09

I'd block the cunt in but I'm mean like that.

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possum18 · 08/03/2016 00:49

Dp was really angry about this when he got home at 7 and stuck the original note on his windscreen. I've been in bed since and doubt they will see it until the morning. Will update Grin

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FrancesNiadova · 08/03/2016 06:49

How brave of your neighbour to have a go at such a heavily pregnant woman. Parking, cars, a man's domain; he has to let the woman know that she can't park because he's such a manly man. Tosser!
You'll never get someone like this to be reasonable & see sense. Let your dh deal with him.
Flowers

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PhoenixReisling · 08/03/2016 07:35

Cheeky fecker!

Entitled much? It's obs that he thinks he owns that part of the road because he has been parking there without issue.

I appreciate that you don't want parking wars, but I wouldn't put up with this shite.

Go Possom DH!

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Pipbin · 09/03/2016 18:06

What is the news?

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tealoveryum · 09/03/2016 18:12

Good on your DH. I'd hope it made them think but they sound shitty enough not to do much of that.

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greathat · 09/03/2016 18:15

I'd never park anywhere else again. Cheeky feckers

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possum18 · 09/03/2016 18:21

No news, not seen them since and DP been at work long days leaving early and coming home late so he's not seen them either. They are still parked there and I'm still in bed Grin I'm trying to just think of it differently and feel a little sorry for them if they get so up tight about a parking space, and kind of jealous that this is obviously the biggest problem in their little life Hmm

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MummaB123 · 09/03/2016 18:22

I'm angry for you just reading this! Hope you get it sorted.

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Fluffyears · 09/03/2016 18:30

If he comes round again refuse to discuss it and say you'll send DP round to talk about it as he's bullying a pregnant woman....watch him back riiiiiight down.

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possum18 · 09/03/2016 18:33

I'm hoping not to have to deal with him again whilst I'm pregnant, I've started crying a lot and don't want him to think I'm a weak woman he can push around and get to. Next time I see him I hope to have my hands way too full of newborn babies to have time talking to him or spend moving cars around to protect his ego!

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tealoveryum · 09/03/2016 18:35

Just think how lucky you are not to be married to someone so tightly wound :) or someone in their life if this is their idea of a problem.

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