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Would this annoy you?

44 replies

Abbinob · 19/02/2016 18:57

DP "had to" take his twat of a brother to court this morning at 8:30. Calls me at 1 and says its done, brother got community service blablabla going to go over his mums for an hour or so then be home to help with toddler (who is the physical embodiment of terrible twos ATM) He hears DS screaming in the background and I had my kid sister and cousin over, he said it sounds stressful and he'd be back soon.

Still not home. My guess is with idiot brother celebrating his victory of being a moron and getting away with it.
Could atleast have the decency to tell me if an hour turns into 6.
If he does come back in willing to bet a lot on the fact that he will sit on Xbox all night.
I'm already pissed off that after saying he was hungry, I made dinner last night and he just sat next to it on his Xbox for an hour. Maybe that one is petty but it seems rude as fuck to me. When he cooks dinner I can't imagine just sitting next to it and carrying on with what I was doing.

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WonderingAspie · 19/02/2016 19:53

He's only throwing that at you because he is a prize twat. My DH would never call me controlling anyway, but let alone for your 2 examples. It's called being in a partnership and common fucking courtesy.

Tell him to jog on back to his mum's.

ohtheholidays · 19/02/2016 20:01

Controlling Haha how old is he fucking 13 tell him your his partner not his Mother so he needs to stop trying to rebel against being a grown man who happens to be a Father and happens to have a partner!

Does he work OP?

EweAreHere · 19/02/2016 20:06

Tell him the kids are his tomorrow, you're having a day to yourself.

DecaffCoffeeAndRollupsPlease · 19/02/2016 20:08

I couldn't cope with that from a 'd'p.

DoreenLethal · 19/02/2016 20:11

Why are you with this twat?

NoCapes · 19/02/2016 20:11

Oh fuck him off he sounds like an arsehole

expatinscotland · 19/02/2016 20:16

Sounds like he comes from such a lovely family, too.

Abbinob · 19/02/2016 20:34

Overgrown teenager exactly. He's 25 not 15 ffs.
Apparently I'm acting like his mum.
I mean I know I am and that's what's pissing me off too. I shouldn't fucking have to.
He is spouting all this shit about how he didn't meant to, he can't help it, just gets distracted etc, as.if he's not in control of what he does, there's just a magical force that makes him act like a wanker.
Typing shit our here to calm down because I don't want a shouting match.
Don't even get me started on his family. His DM decided to phone me and give me shit constantly just after having an abortion and before too, even weirdly threatened to tell my mum, who would have just said 'well its not my business piss off'/anyway. . I don't speak to any of them. Theyre nasty pieces of work and don't seem to have the normal boundaries and respect everyone else does.yet they still come first all the tielme

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MissBattleaxe · 19/02/2016 20:46

List his good points OP.

Seeyounearertime · 19/02/2016 20:49

OP, seems fitting. Grin

Would this annoy you?
RavioliOnToast · 19/02/2016 20:50

I would have cut the fuse off the Xbox, left keys in all the doors so he couldn't get in and 'fallen asleep' also... Cockwomble

Abbinob · 19/02/2016 21:32

Fed up Sad

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Abbinob · 19/02/2016 22:06

Now I'm being (genuinely ) unreasonable because I'm so pissed off everything he is saying is just pissing me off more. Ffs. He's having toddler tomorrow and tonight. But still everything he says is pissing me off and I'm stuck on a loop of thinking, well that isnt the fucking point youve treated me like a cunt again and your saying sorry again and I just want to be pissed off Hmm

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LindyHemming · 19/02/2016 22:14

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WhereYouLeftIt · 19/02/2016 22:50

"I'm stuck on a loop of thinking, well that isnt the fucking point youve treated me like a cunt again"
And the most important word in that sentence is 'again'. Which means being pissed off with him is not unreasonable.

Honestly OP - does he have any good points? Does he bring anything positive to your life? Would you be happier without him?

ManneryTowers · 19/02/2016 22:57

He sounds awful, sorry OP. He just seems to bring extra stress into your life and not relieve any of it.
I wouldn't have put up with it at 25 (assuming you are similar ages) and he sounds like he needs to mature an awful lot. And I agree with PP, his family don't appeal much either.
I don't often say LTB but I will this time. Sell the XBox too.

MidniteScribbler · 20/02/2016 05:25

What exactly about this man appealed to you enough to want to procreate with him?

Get rid. What a dick.

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 20/02/2016 06:15

Gah, he's a manchild.
With no manners or consideration.
Do you really want to spend the rest of your life hooked up to this one?
If not, work out exactly how much more you can stand and then leave him.

IThoughtItWasAFart · 20/02/2016 06:45

LTMC (Leave the Man Child)

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