My mother's side of the family is Irish. They were raised in a catholic area in Cork. My mother, and her 12 siblings, all faced abuse at the hands of the church. It was a long time ago, nobody has ever faced charges over it.
I get this. Many families have this story. At present my dd sings in a children's choir where some children suffered abuse in living memory (so, it wasn't all that long ago) though in that case charges were faced. I know abuse is a risk anywhere that children gather, because children are vulnerable. I am ever vigilant.
Abuse is horrific and ever present. Each of us has to decide how we live our life with that knowledge. Stories of abuse coming out from the church and from sports - where coaches prey on their young charges - and each person has to decide whether to let their dc be in the church or be in sports that require them to spend a lot of time with the coach in places where you might not see what the coach is doing. Remember the school master just convicted, who abused young girls in the school cupboard, in the classroom? Our children are at risk in places where they are supposed to be safe.
The church is full of evil, and also full of good. I think this decision is personal, for some people the evil overcomes the good, and that's their decision to make and I respect it. For me the good overcomes the evil. I will never form a view of the church based on the evil priests, no matter how many they are. This is not because I think the church is doing a brilliant job handling its evil priests, shunting them about from one parish to another. Same with some sports where a famous paedophile coach is just allowed to move on to a different team where the parents don't know his reputation. This is not acceptable.
But the church is not defined by the evil people within it, or even by the people who just look the other when they see evil instead of reporting it. Remember the shameful record of the church when the Jews were being targeted by Nazis and fascists? Looking the other way and saying nothing is what the church mostly did. Yet by it's nature the church will always have evil people in it. The church will never exclude evil people. What sort of church would that be, where only good people are allowed in? In fact the more evil you are, the more reason the church has to welcome you, in the hope of your redemption.