It's my birthday next Monday. On Christmas Day, DH said that for my birthday he would sort out a trip to the West End to see Wicked (which he knows I've wanted to see for a while) and a night away DC free. He asked my DB and SIL if they'd look after the DC. My parents were with us too and my mum said she didn't think it was fair to ask DB and SIL like that.
A couple of weeks ago I was telling a friend how I was looking forward to it and she said she might be able to get cheap tickets for Wicked. I told DH and he told me to speak to her and book it and also speak to DB and book childcare. I refused saying part of the treat was not having to organise it. I thought it might end up that we see the show but not have a night away.
My friend today said she'd messages DH a link last week. I asked DH if I needed to plan around anything for the weekend and he said no, that he now thinks it's too late to book anything and that he'll have to owe me. He says he has ordered me a present which he's sure I'll like.
My friend has today offered to have the DC overnight or babysit for the evening but he thinks it's too late now. We're already out for a meal Friday evening (late Christmas meal with friends) so I'd like to do something other than a meal out but I don't know what. I'm not sure why I'm left feeling I need to organise something and surely DH should have just sorted something?
AIBU? WWYD?