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"Your bin scratched my friend's car..."

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VoldysGoneMouldy · 09/02/2016 19:56

Bins here go out on a Monday morning. We leave it up the top of the drive, and then bring it back to the pathway the side of our house afterwards. It's collected during the school run period, and then we both had appointments, so it was probably moved back about 1030. It's shelted by the side of the house and doesn't move from there.

This morning, my neighbour stopped me in the drive way and said, "I'm not complaining but your bin blew and scratched my friend's new car yesterday, she's only had it three weeks, she's really upset..."

She repeated herself a few times, kept putting emphasis on how upset the friend was and how she'd only just got the car. It struck me when she'd said it three times that she was hinting we should cover the cost for repairs. I apologised and commented on how awful the wind had been yesterday, and how I hoped her friend had got home okay. I got a bit of a dirty look at that point, she got in the car and drove away.

Now I didn't see the car, I didn't see the bin hit it, I don't know where she was parked, I didn't see the scratch - not saying she's lying but I obviously don't know what exactly has happened. Her friend was insistent it was our bin apparently, again, didn't see any of this, when we got home the bin was blown over but on the drive. And the wind was obviously horrendous here yesterday, as it was everywhere, with the storm.

Was I BU to not offer to pay for repairs?

OP posts:
SmellyFartado · 09/02/2016 21:04

What a ridiculous thing to have said, of course it's not your liability to pay. You have to put your bins out on the street to be collected. If she's that precious about her bloody car, don't take it out far less park it in a public place next to bins in a bloody storm.

Your neighbour sounds like a right bundle of fun.

SoleBizzz · 09/02/2016 21:08

Trying to guilt trip you. She seems nice. Deluded Woman.

VoldysGoneMouldy · 09/02/2016 21:08

It bloody is my bin, I paid £65 to the council for the privilege of owning it! Grin

OP posts:
tinofbiscuits · 09/02/2016 21:09

she left the scene of an accident without exchanging details with the bin

Grin
cdtaylornats · 09/02/2016 21:14

Surely if the bin was left where the wind could catch it after being emptied it was negligence on the part of the council.

WhimsicalWinnifred · 09/02/2016 21:14

Why did you have to pay for the bin????

Pp, I think you need to get a thesaurus. A child dying of starvation is not 'sad'. It's far worse than that.

StillYummy · 09/02/2016 21:14

It says on buns that they are the property of ..... Council. I suggest she take it up with them. Terrible for her.

StillYummy · 09/02/2016 21:15

Ooooo get you and your bin ownership ;)

Lurkedforever1 · 09/02/2016 21:15

Poor woman was too traumatised after the unprovoked attack from ops psychopathic waste receptacle to leave her details. She's probably got ptsd hence getting ops neighbour to act as mediator.

Time to stop with the jokes now. Maybe it took a tragedy like this to wake op up to the kind of bin she bought. LTB

PippaHotamus · 09/02/2016 21:17

Maybe the bin didn't stop - maybe it kept on rolling. Hit and run.

Marniasmum · 09/02/2016 21:17

You are not liable it is the wind that damaged the car not you.We had a similar incident with a neighbour when our (weighted and strapped down) trampoline blew into the neighbours field and damaged a building , in unusually strong winds.The insurance companies agreed we were not at fault

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