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Depressed about Caitlin Moran

178 replies

shinynewusername · 08/02/2016 20:02

I loved How to be a Woman but all her work since seems to have recycled the same ideas and it sounds as if her "new" book will be more of the same.

AIBU to feel she is ripping her public off?

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Openmindedmonkey · 08/02/2016 21:01

I remember when she was 'discovered' by one of the Sunday papers when she was a young lass (13? 14?) & was touted as the most amazing insightful yoof blah blah writer ever. I didn't think much of her columns then - I wanted to, out of young feminist solidarity! - & sadly haven't fallen any further in love with her work since then.

CornishDoll82 · 08/02/2016 21:03

She was my idol as a teenager as she was the same age as me. Now I feel irritated by the 'mad I am!' personality she portrays

MadamCroquette · 08/02/2016 21:04

I read How To Be A Woman when baby DD was very ill and I had to sit by her bedside, and it did make me laugh and distract me. But I was surprised when it was hailed as feminism. She doesn't address feminism in a coherent or political way at all - she doesn't really need to when she can just riff on about her own specially unique home-ed life peppered with lots of masturbation and taking drugs at raves. I was a bit Hmm at parts, I was thinking "role model, I don't think so!" I think she can be a good writer but it's a bit wasted because contrary to appearance she's not actually saying much. Or not in what I've read.

Also agree about the gurning and "I'm mad me!" faces in every photo. It doesn't make me want to be her friend, she comes across as annoying.

I think people do become flavour of the month though and get totally overexposed, and they can chuck together a load of drunken ramblings on the back of an envelope and it will get published, resulting in total overkill.

SouthWestmom · 08/02/2016 21:06

Put her in a closed invite only venue with Jack Monroe, Victoria Coren and India knight. Let them be all hilarious together while we can roam the tv screens, press and bookshops free from fear of bumping into their output.

Fatrascals · 08/02/2016 21:06

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LassWiTheDelicateAir · 08/02/2016 21:06

She's the new Kathy Lette, endlessly repeating the same completely predictable gags while shrieking LOOK AT ME, I'M FUNNY! AND A FEMINIST! I'M A FUNNY FEMINIST!

I'd forgotten about Lette but you are absolutely right.

Lovemytent · 08/02/2016 21:06

I went to one of her spoken word shows in Birmingham a year or two ago.

I was disappointed as she told pretty much the same stories she had already written about in HTBAW.

Felt pretty swizzed really - esp as the tickets were not cheap !

shinynewusername · 08/02/2016 21:08

Totally agree about Lette. I just want to shake her and say, "Stop making the pathetic puns".

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RonaldMcDonald · 08/02/2016 21:10

yanbu she depresses me too

deregistered · 08/02/2016 21:12

I agree that her take on feminism....is not, well, really a take on feminism, it's incoherent and non existent.

HTBAW is just a bunch of stories about herself that are 'daring' and 'radical' and 'brave' or whatever.

But overall her biggest crime is not being funny.

You can forgive a lot of shit if someone is funny.

I like Grace Dent, yes she's slightly 'one of them' but she's got a great writing style and she makes me laugh.

MadamCroquette · 08/02/2016 21:13

Not sure why a post about an author and columnist not producing new material has descended into slagging off her personality?

I think it's her personality (or "ooh I'm so offbeat and ker-ayzee and talk about wanking, squeee!" persona) that she trades on and uses as both her material and her appeal. So I don't have a problem with discussing that and why it's irritating.

There are funny women who have talked about feminism and women's lives before, like Jo Brand, Janet Street Porter, Jenny Eclair (who is also a brilliant novelist). Whether or not you like them, to me they seem more genuine.

MadamCroquette · 08/02/2016 21:17

Urgh Kathy Lette's puns! Why why why does she do it? I actually think she is intelligent, and I saw a really good documentary about autism in which she appeared with her son and seemed lovely. I wonder if it's that she's not British-born and doesn't quite get that British humour doesn't quite gel with endless clever-clever puns. They make me squirm!

HooseRice · 08/02/2016 21:18

I'll have to google this person to see if I agree.

dontrunwithscissors · 08/02/2016 21:19

She's a shit writer.

NorthernLurker · 08/02/2016 21:20

I like Victoria Coren but totally agree re India Knight and Jack Monroe and yes I would put Caitlin Monroe in the same (tedious and derivative) room.

slebmum1 · 08/02/2016 21:23

She winds me up irrationally - especially in the Times photograph in the denim shorts and DMs.

MadamCroquette · 08/02/2016 21:23

Lauren Laverne, interesting. I realised recently that I feel under some kind of weird pressure to like her (mainly on 6 music) because she's northern and funky and cool, but actually if I'm honest I don't. It's the same thing as with Moran, it doesn't feel like she really means it. Give me Cerys any day.

Ubik1 · 08/02/2016 21:24

This is the second bitchy thread about CM that has appeared out of the blue this year. Confused

does someone have a personal problem with her?

Is it another tedious twitter spat?

deregistered · 08/02/2016 21:28

Why would you think it's personal or Twitter related? The OP clearly started the thread as Moran has a new book out, that she linked to.

I think the fact that many women on here feel disappointed and pissed off with her is because she held herself up as something she is not. And the fact so many of us feel the same is why the thread is trundling on.

CaptainCrunch · 08/02/2016 21:28

Nobody could be as bad as Kathy Lette.

deregistered · 08/02/2016 21:29

And it's interesting you called it 'bitchy' rather than, say, 'negative' - is that because she's a woman or we're women?

gunting · 08/02/2016 21:30

If someone is putting themselves out there as an author then people are allowed to say their book is shite if it is.

It's not exactly bitchy.

I do remember the other thread last year and someone wrote on here pissed off because CM had blocked them on Twitter I think.

TrollTheRespawnJeremy · 08/02/2016 21:31

Everyone has to be marketable, if she showed up and didn't do the 'Mad Moran' thing then her publishers might get the huff.

I think she's written some great articles over the years. Moranthology was a great read and How To Be a Woman is a good book for woman who don't believe in feminism. Everyone has to start somewhere and it's nice and non-threatening. And upon first read, it is amusing. I'm sure it broadened a few minds. I gave some friends copies and had some great conversations afterwards that we would never have had otherwise.

Lovemytent · 08/02/2016 21:31

I actually like her writing, its just the repetition thats annoying. Paying hard earned dosh to see a live spoken word show to have the same tales told was just a let down. Same with her books, not so much her Times column.

Think i have been spoilt by seeing Henry Rollins do his spoken word shows - they're fantastic, never any repitition. He spoke for 3.5 hours non stop at his last show in Jan and it felt like 30 mins - fabulous. ...I digressed - sorry.

ProjectGainsborough · 08/02/2016 21:32

I like her writing and have often found it insightful and funny.

She's not always consistent in her views and I've not always agreed with her take on things, but that's ok. ... She's not in charge of feminism.

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