DH frequently has bouts of 'man flu', and when he's ill he is very grumpy and awful to live with, to the point of actually saying nasty things to me.
If I am ever ill he gives me no sympathy whatsoever and won't do a thing to help with the DCs or in the house. He gets quite cross really if I'm ill.
On Friday he came home from work a bit early as he felt ill and went to bed and spent the whole evening there, leaving me to do everything for the DCs.
On Saturday during the day he was fine and went off to do his hobby from 8am - 7pm. As soon as he got home he felt ill again and went to bed.
He spent all day yesterday laying around, and now has taken today off work and done the same, and has been in bed all evening. I made him a doctors appointment this afternoon and the doctor has said it's a cold virus.
It's not the ill I mind so much, it's how he speaks to me when he is ill that upsets me. I have been sympathetic, going out and getting him cough mixture, tablets and whatever he fancies to eat and drink. All he has done is grunt at me, moan, make whingey sighing noises, and cough. When he speaks he's horrible.
I was just upstairs, having done everything this evening for the DCs on my own. He was in bed watching TV and I called his name as I was going to tell him something and he answere "WHAT?", in a really horrible nasty shouting voice. I said not to speak to me like that and got a tirade of abuse about how I'm a fucking arsehole, and how I've been vile to him, and how he's in a good mood but apparently it's me that's being an arse. Then he shouted "GO AWAY" so I told him he's on his own with his germs and his virus and he won't be getting anything else from me, and he said "Good".
He always does this. Is ill, moody and then speaks to me like shit and shouts at me but then turns it round on me.
AIBU to be annoyed, and also AIBU to just ignore him now until he's feeling better and apologises, and not do anything else for him?