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Eating in office way before and after lunch time is antisocial

149 replies

DyslexicScientist · 07/01/2016 11:30

A few people in the office eat about 11am and 3pm. I wouldn't mind so much but the food is smelly andthey are noisey eaters (cutlery on a plate like they are playing a drum).

Aibu to think eating at your desk should just be limited to around lunch?

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StitchesInTime · 07/01/2016 14:15

I think that either you're allowed to eat at your desk or you're not. If it's okay at lunchtime, then it's okay at other times.

My last workplace had break areas with enough seats for maybe 1 in 20 of the workers. The break areas were also often used as meeting spaces when meeting rooms were fully booked.
Realistically, it's difficult to avoid people eating at desks if there's not adequate space for them to eat in break areas.

And I agree which foods are smelly is very subjective. Although i did work in one office where the management banned fish entirely after one man came in early, cooked kippers for his breakfast in the staff microwave, and then left half of them in the kitchen bin. It was an amazingly pervasive stench.

reni2 · 07/01/2016 14:19

I had to put music on to drown out that cacophony even just reading it, MaidOfStars Grin

SoWhite · 07/01/2016 14:20

There are break rooms for this.

I every office in the world, ever?

You're having a laugh, you know that right?

CaptainKit · 07/01/2016 14:21

YABU. I'm in my last few weeks before mat leave, and the heartburn struggle is oh so real. Am surviving by eating little and often, which means eating outside the allotted hours of 'lunchtime'.

It's common courtesy to leave the office and eat elsewhere if you're having curry/fish/something else particularly stinky, but in general, eating in offices is nowhere near as annoying as the pen-clicking, self-scratching, space-invading-stretching, and other things that happen. (That might just be my one annoying colleague though.)

MitzyLeFrouf · 07/01/2016 14:26

It's a wonder there aren't more office based homicides.

expatinscotland · 07/01/2016 14:29

It's only on MN that I have ever heard of people with so little going on in life they are all black affronted by other people eating.

I've worked in loads of places with no break/staff room, hot desks, cubicles, etc.

People ate all day long. BFD.

reni2 · 07/01/2016 14:32

If you knew me in rl you'd have no idea I hate eating noises, expatinscotland. People don't say this. People (> 19y) equally don't say anything if you fart. It's not the done thing to comment in rl, so we come on mn and say it here Smile.

KakiFruit · 07/01/2016 14:32

YABU. I'm so glad I work in a small office where we all just talk to each other rather than seething quietly about our pet peeves.

SoWhite · 07/01/2016 14:36

I'm in a residential townhouse converted into an office in Chelsea... there's no canteen! Every room is an office, or a meeting room, or a bog.

expatinscotland · 07/01/2016 14:39

Now there will be 400 posts about what doesn't smell and what does and the freaks who think the entire world should eat only rice and fruit around them or furtively nibble will come out. Grin

StitchesInTime · 07/01/2016 14:43

Fruit smells too Wink

Not sure about rice as I've never had that by itself?

expatinscotland · 07/01/2016 14:50

Oh, I'm just harking back to the 'eating on a train' thread, Stitches, where one poster told me I should eat fruit, rice, salad or a 'polite sandwich' only. I'm diabetic - fruit and rice on their own spike my blood sugar, and all the veggie sandwich fillings which don't were too smelly for her. There was another poster who claimed he kept his sandwich in his coat pocket and took furtive bites of it as he walked, even surreptitiously nibbling it on escalators in The Tube, in case someone blazing past on the left would be offended by the smell of a Pret a Manger sandwich.

I ate whatever the hell I pleased. Glad of it, too. The train experienced major delays through Cumbria due to flooding. Took us nearly 6 hours to go from Glasgow to London thanks to that. I was inhaling the pleasant fumes of the prosecco the ladies behind me were quaffing in large amounts.

FannyTheChampionOfTheWorld · 07/01/2016 14:52

Hopefully the forthcoming 400 posts will illustrate to OP that smelly is in the eye of the beholder. Or nose. FWIW I'd take the smell of curry over a tuna wrap any day.

DyslexicScientist · 07/01/2016 14:57

I was saying both tuna and curry smell.

My wrap less so as just had veggies.

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OnlyLovers · 07/01/2016 14:59

expat, that sounds like a thread for the ages. Grin

What the devil is a polite sandwich and what does the opposite (a rude sandwich? A raucous one?) look/smell like...?

ilovesooty · 07/01/2016 14:59

I'm glad I don't work with the OP quite frankly. She seems to find a lot to complain about.

DyslexicScientist · 07/01/2016 15:02

I kind of want to throw maid out of the window, into the canal with a bricks tied to her Blush lighthearted

so little going on in life

Its two sences overloaded and I can't concentrate. Like being at a band practice in a fish market.

I'm surprised there aren't more office hommocides too.

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MitzyLeFrouf · 07/01/2016 15:03

Re-heated fish and day old egg mayo sandwiches are the only food whiffs I think should be banned in the office.

maybebabybee · 07/01/2016 15:03

Some vegetables stink. Mushrooms, for instance. The smell makes me want to heave but I'm not going to deny someone the pleasure of eating their mushroom soup because of my personal taste.

LivingInMidnight · 07/01/2016 15:03

Someone where I work has chilli or bolognese at 8am. I have issues with food that smells so it's akin to torture for me. Then the fan goes on because they're too hot, so there's no escape.

DyslexicScientist · 07/01/2016 15:03

reni2 I totally get that Grin

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MrsKoala · 07/01/2016 15:05

oh no, I think i've been doing it wrong all these years. I thought the main point of eating on public transport was to repel people and protect your personal space. I purposely eat peperamis and pickled onion monster munch with my mouth open on the tube, so no one sits next to me. Is one not meant to do that then?

reni2 · 07/01/2016 15:10

No no, MrsKoala, your approach works very well. I would take a cab immediately.

WoodleyPixie · 07/01/2016 15:10

We don't have a break room. The kitchen is an area with a kettle and microwave and mini fridge but nowhere to eat. So we eat at the desk. But it's a small company and often I can be the only person in the open plan office.

Miss the days of a proper canteen and a place to sit away from the desk. That has been a lot of years though as prior to this job I worked as a midwife and we had a break room and a canteen subsidised but never had breaks to use it!

soyvanillalatte · 07/01/2016 15:22

One of the sounds I hate more than any other is the sound of a spoon being bashed or tapped against a cereal bowl. At any time of the day. YANBU

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