Bit of a rant.
I usually frequent another part of the forum. I'm a fella btw.
Recently received a broken spine in an RTA (car driver turning across cyclist).
Been here since November so absolutely shit Christmas for me and my my family.
The staff are fabulous. Work their butt off. Lovely folk.
But:
There hasn't been enough staff on the ward. It's a spinal unit with 16 beds. There is a mix of patients. A few younger ones with serious spinal injuries (like me), plenty of elderly with falls, a few cancer patients and FOUR with dementia.
Bear in mind there is some intensive nursing needed in this mix. We've had days where only one qualified Nurse is on, nights where there are just 3 staff.
The big issue is the dementia patients need one to one care. Back injuries and dementia are a bad mix.
Cut to the chase. We have a nice old fella in our ward with Dementia, buy I am absolutely sick and tired of having to keep more or less 24/7 eye on him. I can't get out of bed but I buzz and have had to shout for nurses as the poor man is not aware of his broken back, and his surroundings.
I've been doing this for weeks. I need to get myself better too.
The staff think I'm brilliant but I can't just sit there, watch him spring out of bed and fall over as he is frail.
He has started to come round a bit more recently as we didn't know he had a chest infection. This has cleared but he is now more mobile
The good thing is that I can get him to listen to me and tell me what he needs/wants but it's a battle to keep him still until a nurse is available (sometimes 5 minutes) so you are constantly telling him to please wait and that a nurse is coming.
I'm exhausted and want out but I'm not healed enough.
To top it off I've only once seen him get a visitor. Poor bloke
The NHS seriously needs to look at ward staffing. It's madness that patients have to keep an eye on other patients. It's only because I'm now needing less and less morphine am I awake and not sleeping. My two other room mates are in a similar situation to me but are often out of it as I'm a couple of weeks ahead of them in healing.
It's just not on. I feel so responsible for him.