Background: I once travelled 6 hours round trip to see my sister and family (nephews then aged 1 and 6) - and ended up only seeing them for a couple hours, as sis whisked kids into bed and sis/dp went on date. Obviously, kids fell asleep and so my 'visit' quickly became me watching tv by myself. The issue has come up again now that she has two more little ones with a different partner (boys age 1 and 3, the others mentioned above are now independent 15 and 20). This time I said no to babysitting but spent time with them of course and happy to look after if parents nearby. My nephews are difficult to be around (I love them but not their behaviour) as sis/dp parenting style is without boundaries etc. since when is it ok to assume visiting relatives will look after your kids - and at short notice? I want to play with nieces/nephews, not stop them killing each other wipe bottoms or monitor their behaviour or whatever. How dull for all involved. what would you do?
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