Just when I think my inlaws can't go any lower they go and show just how selfish they are
Background -*my bil is living in London 28 and never worked he has a first class degree in art however he's not coping living in in laws flat in London they live in irland and also being giving money to live off by them he is hording, not eating he looks anorexic tbh often smells (he is lovey though )
He disspaers often won't engage with any one and often sleeps rough even though he can stay at the London flat
We have supested for a long time he has mental health issues
2 months ago he disspaerd he went to my sil she wasn't in so hoped on a train and went to stay in a homeless hostel in corwell 
While I rang round every homeless hostel in Cornwall oh hot footed it down to corwell to fetch him similar things have happened and sil dosent give a shit so it's always us who is left to get him*
Any way my darling bil spent Christmas with my inlaws at there daughters house on Christmas Day he grabbed the carving knife locked himself in the bathroom and threatened to kill himself
My oh has told his parents they need to go to the flat to take a look at the state of it, pack a bag take him back to irland sell the flat and stop giving him feels they are enabling him and simply paying him off instead of caring for him
Any who the up shot was they they said they are off on holiday so can't take him back after a 2 hour phone row they agreed however oh finds out they plan to take him to irland drop him off and go on holiday ffs
Mil is also insisting as there is no mental health issue in her family he can't be that I'll and needs to catch himself on
They are so fucking selfish
My dear bil told us on Christmas Eve he's been having dark thoughts for months
We would have him here but because he has the flat and the cash monthly provided by the inlaws 2k a month no less he runs away we live to close