To think they should be able to play alone for a bit

[PinotAndPlaydough]

My daughters (who have just turned 2 and 4 respectively) will not play alone. Surely they should be capable of entertaining themselves for at least a few minutes? They have plenty of toys and a nice big bedroom to play in as well as toys in the living room, yet they won't play unless I'm actively involved in the game. Am I expecting too much? I would quite like to have time to do my own thing and not to be followed around whilst doing house work with with children repeating the phrases "mummy can you play with us and mummy I'm bored"

I'd say they should be able to entertain themselves for a while, yes.

I rather liked that little word "No" when mine were that age. That and ignoring any protest.

Actually, giving mine a bit of children's TV to watch for half an hour or so while I sneaked a cup of tea did something else saved my sanity on many occasions.

Surely balance is the key? Try saying 'I will play with you but in Xx minutes' and sticking to it.

I think never playing with a child is horrible tbh. Equally, being dragged into every game is annoying too.

Set some boundaries and stick to them.

MarlenaGru that is a pet hate of mine when a child comes to play and is at me all the time to get games out, play with them, wanting to talk to me all the time!! It's my son they are here to play with not me.