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To think i don't have a speech impediment

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McColonel · 20/12/2015 23:53

To me, F and TH are pronounced exactly the same. E.g. three and free - I say them in exactly the same way.

My wife says I can't pronounce th, and I always pronounce an F when it should be TH.

Does anyone agree with me, that they are pronounced the same? Or is she right, and I can't speak properly? My brother agrees with me.

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Branleuse · 21/12/2015 23:09

its only seen as a marker of lower intelligence because people have absorbed that class markers are a gauge of intelligence. Its obviously bullshit but its pretty ingrained.

LucyBabs · 21/12/2015 23:10

Thumb I say it exaxctly like tree. Have you never heard an Irish person say "Turty tree and a turd" ? Smile
(Thirty three and a third)

JessieMcJessie · 21/12/2015 23:19

derxa Like Rogan Josh I too had a granny who said "shree" instead of "three". I assumed it was related to her false teeth initially, but did hear other people speak similarly. All Scottish.

Incidentally, what speech impediment does Alex Salmond have? ( you said above it had not held him back).

CocktailQueen · 21/12/2015 23:30

Have never ever heard anyone in Scotland saying shree for three! Never ever.

And op, I would - rightly or wrongly - judge someone saying uvver instead of other, free for three etc.

They are totally seperate sounds. And it makes me wince. I would not associate someone speaking like this with middle or upper classes, or with being educated. Sorry!

derxa · 21/12/2015 23:54

Alex Salmond says v for th.

derxa · 21/12/2015 23:58

I'm puzzling over this 'shree' thing. It's driving me crazy Grin
It could be loose fitting wallies.

IguanaTail · 22/12/2015 00:06

I can hear "shree" in my mind's ear (does that exist?). Their "r" being right behind the front teeth makes the "shree" sound quite plausible.

IguanaTail · 22/12/2015 00:10

Found it!

. A peculiarly Edinburgh trait is the pronunciation of “tr-” so that it sounds like “chr-” (“tree” sounds like chree”) and “thr-“ so that it sounds like “shr-” (“three” sounds like “shree”).

m.edinburghnews.scotsman.com/news/opinion/we-cannae-stop-speaking-up-for-scots-ye-ken-1-1834770

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 22/12/2015 00:12

Well yes, I have Lucy, which is why I asked if there was a bit of aspiration there - that's what I've heard before. :)

derxa · 22/12/2015 00:19

I get it now Iguana The tr /chr pronounciation is more familiar and lots of pre-school non Scots use it.

museumum · 22/12/2015 09:15

Phew!! Glad somebody found that. As the person who first mentioned the shree thing I was worried how I was going to explain it. As a child I was told it was wrong and only to be used by those who physically can't say th correctly.
I am happy and proud of my accent but I do think that it's important to make kids aware of "correct" pronunciations as every dialect/accent has a more formal and less formal version. The more formal versions travel better.

IguanaTail · 22/12/2015 09:22

I think most people say "chree" instead of "tree" though.

fresta · 22/12/2015 09:29

I think most people say "chree" instead of "tree" though.

I don't think so!

pieceofpurplesky · 22/12/2015 09:30

It causes lots of fun when teaching and the pupils spell on GCSE papers with an F not a Th. Also missing H and the VV sound eg ' my bruvva is a feef and ad to go prison' ( round here to is optional!)

IguanaTail · 22/12/2015 09:46

Try saying "trucks on the train tracks" without making any "ch" sound.

Or "dreary drinks" without a "j" sound.

It's quite unnatural to say terr-ucks on the terr-ain terr-acks". Or "derr-eary derr-inks" even if you say it very fast.

JeanneDeMontbaston · 22/12/2015 09:56

I know it's late in this thread, I'm a geek, so ... In the late fourteenth century, a poet writing (probably in London) used to use 'f' and 'v' as if they were the same letter. We know, because alliteration is a big part of his verse. I always find students really struggle with this, except a few smug ones who point out that they know modern accents that do the same.

It's the ancestor of Cockney.

BirdsInMyPants · 22/12/2015 10:01

OP are you tongue-tied?

A good friend of mine can't pronounce th and he's tongue-tied.

fresta · 22/12/2015 11:00

Iguanamaybe you have speech a problem - would you really say that as 'chucks on the chain chacks?' I don't, and I just asked my 10 year old to read it and she clearly said it says t-rucks not chucks?

ButterflyUpSoHigh · 22/12/2015 11:27

I am from the Midlands and can certainly say trucks on the train tracks there are no ch sounds anywhere.

Dreary drinks has no j sound.

I have never heard anyone say those sentences with the sounds you are saying.

liquidrevolution · 22/12/2015 13:15

Its an accent not an impediment. I'm from norf London but have heard the same accent here in Oxfordshire. My DH is posh rural Berks and went to private school.

I am more qualified and earn more than him. Accent does not make a jot of difference in the real world. Except for that time I had a job interview with a famous TV historian and my accent was pointed out to me with a sneer

(Although I did steer clear of th and ph sounds when naming my daughter)

LucyBabs · 22/12/2015 13:34

I'm baffled as to how there could possibly be a ch sound when saying Truck Confused

HowBadIsThisPlease · 22/12/2015 14:08

Not everyone says chucks on the chain chacks but enough people do that it is a thing. Also "Schjeet" for "street" is very usual. a lot of people can't say st without making it into sh or sch and it gets very noticeable in "Street" because of the complicating r, which often doesn't appear at all but just sort of makes the "shj" or "schj" heavier and further back in the mouth. (I have a feeling this may be more of a southern thing?) There was a time in the noughties when it was practically illegal not to have ramrod straight hair when you would hear 10 conversations a day about "Schjay'-nahs"

I notice a lot of things like this because I don't live where I grew up, and my parents are from different places, neither of which is where I grew up. So I am used to hearing people saying the same things in very different ways.

I do object to the expression "lazy" being used for a different way of making sounds. I know it isn't meant as a moral judgement (but it shouldn't be used anyway because of it's hinting at this) - but is a way of expressing that the movements are taking a path of least resistance instead of the long way around to make the "proper" sound. However I object to it even in that sense, because most people who have one or two of these ways of pronouncing certain sounds also have other sounds where they are taking a very long way around in muscular terms. It's just varied ways of learning to speak, they are morally and effortfully neutral.

Theoretician · 22/12/2015 14:24

It's quite unnatural to say terr-ucks on the terr-ain terr-acks". Or "derr-eary derr-inks" even if you say it very fast.

I don't know why anyone would put a "ch", in "trucks on the train tracks", I think to do so would be unnatural. Having said that, you also seem to be putting in extra syllables all over the place, compared to the way I would say it. For me "trucks" = "trux", in fact none of your three "terrs" exist for me. (Not sure if it's relevant, but I don't pronounce "r"s the way a Scottish person might.)

McColonel · 22/12/2015 14:27

"I am from the Midlands and can certainly say trucks on the train tracks there are no ch sounds anywhere.

Dreary drinks has no j sound.

I have never heard anyone say those sentences with the sounds you are saying"

I agree with this. I've never heard it either. I have no problem at all with tr or dr sounds. Don't know if I'm tongue-tied. Not that I'm aware of. I'll look it up.

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McColonel · 22/12/2015 14:29

I looked it up - i am definitely not tongue tied.

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