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To think this email was patronising

65 replies

christineso · 17/12/2015 00:36

I believe my landlord has leaked my information to a third party.
I emailed a manager of the landlord to say "as my information has been leaked which is a breach of data protection, I have seeked legal advice and will be taking civil action"

she replied saying
"Thanks for your email, I look forward to receiving a letter from your solicitor"

is this not patronizing and unprofessional?

OP posts:
lostinmiddlemarch · 17/12/2015 08:33

It's 'sought' legal advice, not 'seeked'.

atticusclaw2 · 17/12/2015 08:37

Standard wording (I'm a solicitor) probably given to her by her solicitor. Your post is bizarre and presumably you haven't actually taken legal advice at all given what you've written. What do you expect her to say "oh no please don't I'll give you six months free rent and be your best friend forever" ??

ivykaty44 · 17/12/2015 08:39

Your maiden name wouldn't be difficult to source on the internet and someone giving your maiden name to a third party is no breech of DP as it is information freely available on public documents.

mmmuffins · 17/12/2015 08:53

Her email might have a hint of patronizing in it, but it isn't unprofessional. And to be fair, it would be hard to take a poorly written, dramatic email from a tenant seriously.

MoaningAtTheGates · 17/12/2015 09:33

You threatened legal action.

She responded to it with a standard phrasing when someone threatens legal action.

I really fail to see the issue.

And, if I've understood correctly that the legal action is to do with just leaking your maiden name, well good luck with that....

Pigeonpost · 17/12/2015 10:51

Standard response (I'm a solicitor too). You do realise that seeking legal advice costs money right? LOTS of money. What exactly do you hope to achieve. Especially as Choughed has it bang on re the ICO.

Whatthefreakinwhatnow · 17/12/2015 10:56

Your maiden name will be freely available in the public domain, so there hasn't been a breach of data protection at all Hmm

Sorry OP but I think your letter sounds silly, and you received a bog standard response.
Nothing remotely unprofessional about it.

SoupDragon · 17/12/2015 11:34

You are having an eventful few days aren't you, OP? What with your cousin reporting you to the police for harassment and your landlord telling someone yr maiden name....

BlueJug · 17/12/2015 11:46

Standard, formulaic polite reply to what you have written. There si nothing else she can say.

Legal action, especially in civil cases, tends to be expensive and unless you have been caused real damage and that damage can be proved and quantified it is difficult to get any redress. I suppose it depends what you want.

Lonecatwithkitten · 17/12/2015 12:25

It's exactly the response I am told to make by my professional indemnity insurance.

londonrach · 17/12/2015 16:31

Looks like standard email response.

TheCraicDealer · 17/12/2015 17:09

I love it when people say they're going to get their solicitor involved. I just think, "good, then I can speak to someone who knows what they're talking about".

DinoSnores · 17/12/2015 17:19

I am quite genuinely looking forward to receiving a solicitor's letter from our rather odd neighbour who is threatening legal action because she has a number of problems with a tree in our garden, namely leaves fall off it and birds sit in it.

Narp · 17/12/2015 17:38

I suppose the term 'look forward' implies something more positive in layman's terms than its literal meaning.

QueenofallIsee · 17/12/2015 17:51

Look, she was probably being sneery because you are being a bit ridiculous. Your email was not at all true, you HAVEN'T sought legal advice, you just wanted to put the wind up someone that you don't like. She has called you out in a very professional way knowing full well that you have done no such thing. Chalk it up to experience OP and resist the temptation in future to throw around things like 'seeked legal advice' as it makes you sound daft.

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