Going to PIL's today for pre-Christmas lunch.
MIL always serves horrible shop-bought mince pies that I & DS don't like. I eat one out of politeness but DS is always "full". DH eats anything sweet so doesn't care.
I'm about to make a batch of delicious mince pies & take them as a gift. MIL will serve them instead she & FIL really like home-made mince pies - they eat loads of mine if they're over here at Christmas.
DH thinks I'm being rude. I'm not - mine are nicer
, she can save her nasty ones for another day - win win I'd say...