Our DS is nearly 1. His newborn, 0-3 month and 3-6 month clothes are now packed away in the loft. Before packing them away, I threw away stuff that was too badly faded/sicked/pooed on, and a few other bits that weren't our kind of thing got given to charity. We still have quite a lot of stuff, I admit.
DH's colleague's daughter is expecting a baby girl next month and he randomly told his colleague we have loads of baby stuff to get rid of, and we wouldn't need it back.
I have tried to suggest that actually the stuff I've kept has been kept for a reason, i.e. us having further children, and I don't want to give it away. If I was going to go around giving stuff away it would be to friends and family, not the daughter of a colleague who neither of us actually know.
He has suggested just giving away the unisex stuff as he knows she is having a girl. I pointed out that there is a 50:50 chance we will need it when we have another baby.
He is having a total grouch now about "losing face" in front of this colleague. I have suggested his easy way out is to say that I only packed away stuff we wanted to keep and gave the rest to charity, which actually is pretty much the truth! He still seems to think this is unreasonable of me.
AIBU to want to keep my baby clothes after our first baby, in anticipation of further babies? DH is trying to make me feel like I'm a heartless uncharitable cow, but fuck it I just don't want to give my son's things away to a stranger!