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To suggest that ff babies are generally more content than breastfed babies?

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mrsb26 · 08/12/2015 20:16

...because they are fuller for longer?

Following on from an article I read recently regarding a study that suggested that of its recipients, the ff babies were generally deemed to be more calm, easy to settle to sleep etc than breastfed babies.

I know this is bound to be a taboo subject, but I must say, as a breastfeeding mother myself to a 4 month old dd, I have considered whether she'd be more satisfied on formula. She's not the easiest of babies and, to me, seems fussier and more demanding than her formula fed peers.

For example, she is really hard to settle to sleep for naps. She will sometimes feed to sleep, but not always (I know this is a debate on itself). I have never been to the shops or out for a walk for half an hour without her fussing (even if it's just for a little bit). She will sit on my knee or go to someone else for five minutes tops before fussing and starting to cry.

I'm not doubting the benefits of the quality of breastmilk, obviously. I guess I just feel like I'm filling up a tank that's emptying as quick as it's filling^^ and that she's never fully satisfied. I know breastmilk is digested quicker, but still.

She has no issues re: reflux, tongue tie or anything either.

Of course there are behavioural differences amongst all babies, but as a general rule, what is your opinion? Interested to hear from anyone who has perhaps breastfed one baby and formula fed another.

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DixieNormas · 11/12/2015 11:02

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FattySantaRobin · 11/12/2015 11:04

None of mine were ever fed to a routine. They fed/feed on demand.

Pyjamaramadrama · 11/12/2015 11:05

I mean what do you think we do ignore their hunger cues because it's not 3.00?

Doublebubblebubble · 11/12/2015 11:06

Also also my ds 8 weeks was in hospital this last week with bronchiolitis. (he was fed through a tube and I had to express) - entirely horrible but let me assure you the ff mums on the wards HAD to bring in their OWN milk... The nurses would make it up for them but the NHS doesn't have cans and cans of all the different types of milk that there is available x

tobysmum77 · 11/12/2015 11:08

I also demand fed it's a really weird idea that you just poke a bottle at a ff baby wherever you fancy and it feeds. It definitely doesn't work like that in my experience.

TaliZorah · 11/12/2015 11:08

Double I dunno about other ff but I ff on demand. I don't know how people schedule it, my baby would scream the place down if I made him waitv

BillBrysonsBeard · 11/12/2015 11:09

I fed my ff baby when he cried for it and stopped when he'd had enough..

DixieNormas · 11/12/2015 11:09

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FattySantaRobin · 11/12/2015 11:09

And you certainly can't feed a baby that isnt hungry!

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Pyjamaramadrama · 11/12/2015 11:12

My mum and mil apparently breastfed to a schedule 30+ years ago. How I will never know.

They weaned onto solids at 2-3 months though.

Doublebubblebubble · 11/12/2015 11:13

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No I'm not suggesting that you don't feed your babies when they want to be fed at all (I am the only one of my friends that bfs - all of my friends have ff (one friend tried to and baby just wouldn't latch) and I'm very supportive of them...) what I mean is - and I'm struggling with how to word this - is that you know how many bottles roughly that your baby will take a day...

last time I join a thread for ff v bf

Pyjamaramadrama · 11/12/2015 11:17

Double Smile

It hasn't really worked like that for me. In the early weeks the babies might have up to 10 bottles with tiny bits of milk which they may or may not finish.

Ds is 6 months now and in a bit of a routine, but it varies even now.

FattySantaRobin · 11/12/2015 11:19

double I really don't.
A few days ago DS2 (18 weeks) only had 4 8oz bottles. He just wasn't hungry.
Yesterday he had 8 8oz bottles.
So far today he's had 10oz.

Pyjamaramadrama · 11/12/2015 11:20

FF did seem to leave ds1 fuller for longer, marginally. I thought I bf him for 10 days but looking in his red book I was still mix feeding at 3 weeks so can't remember when I stopped for good.

Formula has made no difference to ds2 he's a little and often baby.

TaliZorah · 11/12/2015 11:21

Double I don't. Sometimes he has more than others. I just feed him when he wants food

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waitingforsomething · 11/12/2015 11:22

My ff babies have been demand fed and stopped when full

Pyjamaramadrama · 11/12/2015 11:24

Making the bottles up, another apparent parenting fail Smile

waitingforsomething · 11/12/2015 11:25

I also can't believe anyone would feel ff has a negative impact on brain development. No evidence of this (including my own family where me and both siblings were ff and went to oxbridge)

TaliZorah · 11/12/2015 11:26

Apparently that was the right answer, she was trying to find out if I was making them in advance rather than when needed.
What a cheeky bastard.

How would that even tell you? I make them in advance, if he wants more I just make another one, so no idea how she would know

TaliZorah · 11/12/2015 11:28

pyjama I make them up. Never had any problems with it.

Pyjamaramadrama · 11/12/2015 11:29

Tali so do I Grin

FattySantaRobin · 11/12/2015 11:31

I make six up. Cool quick, stick at back of fridge. If more are needed I make more. If they aren't all used in 24 hours I make fresh. Done the same with 3 of them now.

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